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Pray for my H. The guilt and lies are eating him up. Pray for the OW she needs to be convicted -- so many lives are at stake here. Pray for me. I am feeling stronger and I do believe I am nearly ready to talk with the OW about her involvement with my H. Her h is hurting too and he doesn't know why.<BR>
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bjb<BR>When you said her h is hurting but doesn't know why. They think that just because they keep it a secret that it doesn't hurt us. It drives an invisible wedge between you and you don't know why. It is amazing to me. how much hurt it can cause. All of a sudden an invisible wall exists where there was none before, and you just can't figure out why. It makes you feel like you are crazy.<BR>I'll never forget the time I was pretty sure he had seen her. I asked him and I got this innocent But why would you think that. So I said Okay I am imagining it.I am nuts, paranoid, being obsessive. Behold he had been with her. There was no description for what I felt. The infidelity is one thing and it is pretty painful, but the lies on top of it only compound the pain and betrayal.<BR>Couldn't help it. this I guess still gets to me even though it is in the past.<BR>I'm glad you are feeling stronger. Just keeep your sights on Jesus. Grow in Him and stayed very close to HIm. He will get you through elequestly and You will know Him, as yyou have never known Him.. God Bless.<P>Father, give bjb an extra measure of support and love today. Draw her to You through Your word.. Show her he path and the voice You want her to have. Give this other h whose wife too is cheating on him, give him You. use this for Your good and Your glory. Confound, confuse and expose the ow and this h to each other and to any other according to your will. Lord, reveal the truth to them and show them their blindness! GIve them eyes to see and ears to see the pain they are causing. Lord open their hearts to receive Jesus and Your truth. In Jesus name, Amen.
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bjb,<BR>I will be praying for you, your H, the OW and her H as I drive to work today. I have a long drive so it gives me time to think and pray. Lord Jesus will be with you today bjb. <P>Blessings,<BR>AW
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