Well I helped her move the furniture. Things went pretty well. we went to get the talbe from her grandparents house. ( they love me)<P>A friend of mine went with me to help. We visited for just a few minutes. her grand mother said" Now we will have to go eat over there". W said "I'll to get some silver ware". her GM then said you should get back together with H and he could get you some and everything would come together like it should be. I thought this was funny, W did not.<BR>W said dont listen to her( laughing). GM then said to me I can say what I want cant I.<P>While we were there OM called he's back in town. He's a truck driver. She sounded excited and went into another room.<P>Well we got the table to her house, and while we were setting it up she asked if we wanted coffee. We drank coffe and just talked. I did tell her that her GM had good advice. She just looked at me and rolled her eyes. <P>All and all it was good. I rubed the back of her head and told her bye. Then held out my hand for FIVE. Thats what we do now. I held it a for a second.( MAN I wanted to just pull her to me and squeeze).<P>I have a question now. Is it ok to keep duing these things for her? She says she feels like she is using me. I do it cause I want to. The old me would complained about it. Should I not do all the things she askes of me? If she has both worlds will she ever wake up?<BR>Well we got the table to her house. Got it together and W asked if we wanted coffee <P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

brownphdt,<P>Your in <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A>...(Avoid angry outbursts, disrespectful judgments, and selfish demands)... and fulfilling her <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3300_needs.html" TARGET=_blank>Emotional Needs</A>!<P>You're doing fine! <P>Jim<BR>---------------------------------<BR>Where two or more are gathered...

I dont, do those things, atleast I dont think I am. Whil I was there She asked if i would put the silver ware up. I to the holder out of the dish deal. She said put it back that is one of her pet pieves. I sadi see all you have to do is tell me and I wont do those things again. Is that bad to say.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>