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OW lost baby day before yesterday...whole family is rallying round H encouraging him to take this opportunity to startover with me. The support is awesome, though I know he is hurting. I suspect he is still trying to help her get where shee can be settled, possibly here in our town. He feels bad I am sure...her alone in this country, not speaking English and having lost the baby. I am praying she will stand behind her resolve not to come.....I think all the family and friends are discouraging this. i hope I can be strong enough to just love him through this...he doesn't talk about it ao we can not discuss it.<P>Keep us in your thoughts....and thank you for all your encouragement.<BR>Kim
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I am so angry.....today H mentioned ow's child as if it wasn't gone. I know he sent her $ yesterday afternoon...$ that I had to cover for a car payment that he said he had no $ for. I think eithershe lied about losing it to get sympathy or she said it was fine but she needed $ for a doctor or something to string him along. I am praying the full wrath of God to be on her..that he will bring her to her knees for all the lying and cheating and manipulating. H and I are making so much progress, but I fear she will still try to come back to our town and take him from me.<P>Please pray with me in agreement for her conviction...she is evil walking!
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The hardest thing I have had to deal with is forgiving the OW..... Its so much easier to put the blame there than on our own husbands.... But when I asked my husband once "What has given her the right to take something that should not be available to her?" in other words 'doesn't she know married men are off limits?' and my husbands response was, "I wasn't unavailable to her or did I claim to be anything other than available"<P>I guess from that day on I realized my husband had made the choice to have an affair, and she was believing there was a future in it because of my h's words and actions........ <P>Hence, evil walking becomes insecurity trying to survive.......<P><P>------------------<BR>Jesus is the only answer!<BR>His blessings, Cozy
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