Oh, ladies...<BR>I bet we've not delt with this problem before...or at least not recently! H fell $800 short of household bills the past month as a result of having his head in his affair and not in his marriage. This week things have been so much better (though I know he has contacted or tried to contact ow several times, calls have been mostly 1-2 minutes, so I am praying she is cutting him off) however, as bill time approaches, I discovered the shortfall was larger than the original amount of $400 that I thought we were short. H tried to comfort me...told me not to worry. I have talked to a financial analyst and he is going to help, and he's offered H and I a parttime position as a team to refer Hispanics to his company. However, I saw online where H went to a site where MEN HAVE SAFE SEX AND GET PAID UP TO $1000/WEEK. That's the last thing we need. On one hand, I'm glad he wants to handle the financial mess he's made but NOT THIS WAY!<P>Please pray with me that H continues to lose touch with OW and that he gives up on this get rich quick sex scheme. I pray that the analyst will have good news for us when we meet together with H on Tuesday, and that H sees a way to make it without such drastic measures. Also pray with me that H reaches apoint where he can fully disclose to me where he and OW stand, and the fact that she miscarried.<P>I feel sometimes (like we all do) that I just can't win for losing!<P>Oh, yeah...my grandma made it through surgery fine. No colonostomy bag, they think they got all the cancer, and though she had a mild heart attack during surgery, she is out of critical care and back in a regular room. Thanks for your prayers for her.<BR>Kim

Kim,<BR>I am sorry your husband is looking down the path to destruction. You know who is responsible for that! Rebuke Satan, Kim, plead the blood of Jesus over him, annoint every room of your house with oil, annoint your husband's head while he is sleeping and pray FERVENTLY for his salvation and bind the enemy! If you don't already have the Prayer for a Loved One in Bondage, please let us know and we can bring it up to the top. It is an awesome prayer, and I have seen great results praying it and praying Scripture over my husband. Most importantly, don't let on to your husband that you are praying this way for him. Let him be <B>"won without a word"</B>. I feel VERY strongly about telling you this, I don't know why. Kim, cry out to God in your prayer closet, alone. Pour out ALL your troubles to Him, let Him have them all. The Lord will take care of your financial needs. Do not worry. Stay calm and let the light of Jesus shine through your eyes. The Lord promises to hear you and will lift you up immediately. Remember "As and it shall be given you; seek and you shall find" Matt 7:7. Don't let Satan's schemes overtake you. Put on the full armor of God, read your bible daily and every time you start to feel bad, especially Eph. 6:10-11. Stand FIRM against the enemy, rebuke him, and he must flee. You have all power and authority over Satan by the blood of the Lamb, which you are covered in. <P>Do you make the beds and do the laundry at your house? If so, get a small handkerchief or something like that and go to your prayer closet and pray over it, asking the Lord to annoint it, pray deliverance for your husband over it, etc. Place this cloth inside his pillowcase so that when he sleeps he sleeps on it. Pray, pray, pray and pray some more Kim. You are so close to a breakthrough, that is why Satan has stepped up his attacks on you and your husband. Stand firm in the Lord, and give the battle to Him. <P>Reread POPW and pray the prayers over your husband every time you think of him. Be sure to include yourself in your prayers, asking the Lord to mold you into the godly Christian wife He wants you to be.<P>PRAY WITHOUT CEASING KIM.<P>Love and prayers,<BR>AW