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Again so many of us have really faced attacks throughout the last several weeks. What about Tuesday Sundown until Wed sundown. I thought the mid week might give us all a boost. If you want to join let me know and tell the hour you would like between that time, keeping in mind that 11:00 EST is prayer time also, which I hope several will join in there too. So leave any specific prayers and a time you can pray over eveyone.<BR>Thanks hw

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I will take 10pm to 11pm tuesday, my request is for more patience. I gave my h 3 major questions to go over with our counsler, about our relationship, he just non-chalantly said, yes, those are good things to bring up, and started talking about his fishing trip. I can't help feeling like he just doesn't care. That hurts, because lately I thought I had been sensing he really did. How long do I have to ride this rollercoaster????????????? It's like one step forward, two steps back, all the time

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Sounds good to me. I could sure use some extra prayer. I will take Wed. AM from 8 - 9 AM EST. <P>My husband is in CA, drinking up a storm. I'm getting unsettled and need to get over it. His lack of love and caring is really starting to get to me. Thanks for letting me vent ladies.

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Count me in...I'll take 9-10 Tues night.<P>My prayer for my marriage is that God will remove once and for all the OW from our lives. i don't know what, exactly, is their status, but I know H still calls her in Fl. several times each week. I think they may not be as intense as before since H evidiently placed a call to her home right before he wrote such encouragement in the baby book. I need God to really drive a wedge between them, H's love for me is returning strongly, but i need the ties to be broken between those two.<P>Kim

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I'll take the early morning hours on Wednesday. The Lord usually wakes me up between 3-5 anyways.<P>Prayer emphasis for me is taking the initiative to begin the Matt 18 process with my husband. To love him enough to not allow what is going on in our marriage to continue. To remember that fear does not come from the Lord and that his will prevails. That what he has started, he will complete.

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Sign me up for Wednesday A.M. from 1 to 2. That is 10-11 pm my time. <P>My prayer request is for love to be poured out upon all of us. I need to feel God's love in and through me now. How can I express what I cannot feel? My H desperately needs to feel and heed God's love in his heart. Pray that the thick hard walls of our hearts are softened that we will be loving and forgiving spouses. What better than love can drive out depression?

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hw - I can pray from 7 - 8 PM Wed night too. Doesn't get dark until 9 PM here.<P>Thanks for organizing this! I certainly need to pray.....<P>Here's my prayer request: Pray that the Lord so move David he gets on his knees and begs the Lord to forgive him, and accepts Jesus as his Savior, pray that the Holy Spirit overwhelms David with conviction, that verses from the Word go over and over in David's mind, pray that Holy Spirit filled Christians are placed in his path at every turn to witness to him, pray that he is delivered from his addiction to alcohol and lust, pray that he repents with godly sorrow, pray that the Lord continue to speak to his heart and turn his heart first to Him then to the wife of his youth, me. Thank you so much ladies!<p>[This message has been edited by Alcoholic's Wife (edited June 26, 2000).]

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Wow!! Praise the Lord!!!<BR>I will put up a list of the times later today and then others will know when to fill in if they want. This is great. I am so excited!! God is moving through us ladies!!<BR>Amen

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Here are the times signed up for:<P>Tuesday<BR>8-<BR>9- Emptyinside<BR>10- Carol14<BR>11-All Cyber tea and prayer<BR>12-HW<BR>Wed morning<BR>1- Karenna<BR>2-<BR>3-<BR>4- Sue B<BR>5- onedayatatime<BR>6-<BR>7- HW<BR>8- AW<BR>9-<BR>10- HW<BR>11-<BR>12- (noon)HW<BR>1-<BR>2-<BR>3-<BR>4- HW<BR>5-<BR>6-<BR>7- AW<BR>8- HW<P><BR>This is what we have so far.<BR>I am excited. I have been reading the Psalms outloud, especially the ones that praise the Lord.<BR>Psalm - Present faith and hope<BR>Psalm 34 - Boasting in the Lord<BR>Psalm 46- Immanuel, God with Us<BR>Psalm 98- Jehovah, the Savior King<BR>Psalm 100- The Lord is God and good<BR>Psalm 103 The Benefits of God's Grace<BR>Psalm 121- The Lord our Keeper<BR>Psalm 122- The Peace of Jerusalem<BR>Psalm 123- The Uplifted eyes of faith<BR>Psalm 127- The vanity of unblessed Labor<BR>Psalm 130-Out of the Depths<BR>Psalm 139- The All-Seeing Eye of God<BR>Psalm 145- In Praise of God's Kingdom<BR>Psalm 150- The Final Doxology<BR>These titles come from a book of Psalms, commentary and photography by John Stott, called "Favorite Psalms"<P>Remember to praise the Lord, heartily and tp pray as if the Lord, has already answered. For wne we ask we must believe.<P>Anyone else want to join, add your times below and I will add them to the list above. Also add your request. I will write my requests tomorrow. God is working in my husbad mightily and He is moving him. All for God.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by hw (edited June 27, 2000).]

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I forgot to put down my prayer request.<P>I praise the Lord, that He is drawing me deeper into relationship with Him. I praise the Lord, that He is softening my h's heart toward Him and me. I praise the Lord, that He is causing my h to read His word and to pray. I praise the Lord, that my husband is loosed from the other woman by the blood of Christ. I praise the Lord for continuing to move them apart, so that my husband feels even less connected moving to feeling no connection with the ow. I praise the Lord that those things about her that drew him to her no longer excite and entice him. I praise the Lord, that the ow is exposed and confounded before my husband. I praise the Lord that He is bringing an unmarried man into her life that she will go for. I praise the Lord, that He is lighting the fire of desire in my h's heart for me, the wife of his youth. I praise the Lord, that He is instruction Jack all day long and even while he sleeps. I praise the Lord that He is putting Christian men in his path to draw Jack to Him. I praise the Lord, that he has provided an annointing of the Holy Spirit to break all chains and yokes of bondage and strongholds in Jack's life. I praise the Lord, that He has removed all thoughts of separation and divorce and replaced them with thoughts of coming home and restoring the marriage. I praise the Lord, that He has changed Jack's image of me and that He has lit the fire of desire in Jack's heart for me. I praise the Lord, that this marriage will be restored and that Jack will love Cindy again and that Cindy will love Jack again and that they will seek the Lord together as one. Lord, I pray that Your will be done in this covenant marriage and I relese this marriage into your hands to work in ways that I could never imagine. Let Your will prevail and let Your Glory shine through the restoration of this marriage. In Jesus name, Amen.

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I will pray from 5 - 6 wed a.m. PST. I usually spend this time in prayer anyway and Please include me in your prayers. I have been assaulted on all sides this past few weeks. I am seeking the joy of the Lord in all of this and wish to have encouragement. My situation has been the same (up and down) for several years now. I specifically ask that you lift my H (Marc) before the Lord and I ask that the Lord would have a divine appointment with him, that my H would set aside his anger and see his need for repentence and that the desire of his heart would be to walk in righteousness. That his desire for his family would be renewed and strengthened. I also ask that the OW be lifted up in prayer. I ask that she would be strengthened, that her desire would be for righteousness, that she would see the truth and that the Lord would cause their relationship to be severed. I also pray that the Lord would show her his love and mercy. Thank you.<p>[This message has been edited by onedayatatime (edited June 27, 2000).]

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including you in our prayers and posting your prayer time. Thanks.


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