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Friends,<BR>I have wonderful news. H and I seem to have a reached a turning point. He has been super attentative, loving, etc...this entire week. As far as I can tell there has been no contact with OW since the call Thursday afternoon that made H question whetether or not to go ahead on our home loan. (which he did commit to) H has taken me many places this week, always introducing me as his wife...which for a while, I was jst Kim if I was anything..if I was ever taken anywhere...and we have been to see many old friends who didn't even know we were pregnant. So he's been showing us off. He has complimented me often on the dinners I've made, and on how I look so much cuter pregnant than he thought I would. More importantly though, is that he has taken care of ME this weekend. My back went out Friday night causing me to fall (not hard, but I can do almost nothing by myself even now.....not sure if the baby is pinching my sciatica nerve or if this is a repeat of an OLD back problem that hasn't surfaced for a couple of years) He has helped me get up, walk, go to the bathroom, etc. And yesterday, when I got into the whirlpool he actually got in with me. Then later he put me in the pool to see if floating in the water would take the pressure off my spine. many times over this weekend, the pain was sharp and he would rush to me to help straighten me out and supprot me and hold me. He even kissed me as he was walking me in from the pool...on the cheek, but a genuine, heartfelt kiss. <P>So friends, I ask you to pray with me that H will not contact the OW. He has said again that since he is on vacation this week he really needs to go see his dad in Fl..ow lives there too. He genuinely could be visiting dad, but the temptation would be too great to go on to where she lives. He says he knows he can't really afford to go. And he knows I am in a tenuous spot..but if my back gets better, and if it rains here alot this week he says he still may go. I think he probably is just talking about ideas, but I am praying he lets those ideas go, stays home and learns to enjoy his family.<P>

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Kim, <BR>wonderful news. Praise the Lord, He is working all things for good! You are in my prayers.

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I'm praying in agreement with you. God's blessings to you and your family.


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