Hello Ladies,<P>This is my 1st post on this forum. I have been reading what is posted here, and I so happy to have found this site. There is so much love, encouragement and support here; I know I am where I belong.<P>To fill you in. I am divorced w/ a 3yo. My former H has moved out of state. He had an affair that started in spring of last year, and has had several other women in the interim. I was his 3rd marriage, and our child is his 3rd child.<P>We have only been divorced a short time, but I deeply in my heart would love nothing more than to reconcile.<P>During his affair(s), my heart became harden and I found it very difficult to get over the anger. I struggle with this still to this day, but I now realize that I must first cleanse my OWN heart, before reconciliation can happen.<P>I love my H. People think I am crazy; even my Christian parents think I need to let go; but the Lord is telling my heart different.<P>I would like to know if any one here has remarried their former spouse, and how it is going. <P>Also, my former H is not a Christian, so this makes things even more difficult. I believe in the vows I took......until death do us part. I am prepared to live my life as a single parent, if that be God's will for me, or I will wait until God changes me heart and my H heart, and we remarry.<P>Please pray for me and my family. I will do the same for you.<P>God's blessings to you all. Praise the Lord I found this forum!

Welcome Sister,<P>I remarried my husband after 15 years. We had two years together before he was killed in an auto accident. I can tell you though I sometimes think that the Lord allowed my husband to come back so that I would quit living in the past and to focus on Him and the future and His will for me. I can honestly and ashamedly say that there were days when I called out to my husband rather than to the Lord. The Lord broke those chains of bondage. <P>I will always love my husband even though I am now remarried, but I know a sweeter love of the Lord than ever before. Do not dream of getting back with your hubby, but in seeking to know the Lord and His will for you. If He choses to give you back your husband, then it will be as the Lord has worked in his heart, for he does not desire for you to be unequally yoked. Learn what the Lord would have you learn to be the woman He desires for you to be and He will give you the desires of your heart....though He may change those desires as you see them now. I encourage you to grow with us.