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#355113 04/09/01 08:46 AM
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Our relationship (with H) had been progressing, it seemed as though we were going to work things out. This past week, H has been cold and distant, angry with me. It seems as though the harder I try to follow a plan A, the smaller the thing is that can become offensive to him. He had been planning to finish up his loose ends and move home. He called last week to tell me of a wonderful job opportunity he had found. It could be great, however he would be working weekends (staying where he is) and that is the only time that we can see one another unless he comes here. I calmly pointed out to him that if he took the job, we would not be able to see one another at all (he would be living at the resort from April until October). He then told me that comments like this were the reason that he had cheated on me in the first place. He then told me that I deserved to be cheated on. I felt that this all came from out of the blue as I believe that my comment should not have been offensive. I actually said very little, but began crying. He could hear the tears in my voice and then became more angry. He told me not to call him until I could quit being a cry baby, he told me to just have our D call him. I have honored his wishes, however he has called me once or twice daily since Thursday when all of this happened. He has been cold and abrupt and I wonder why he wants to talk to me. I have only made the daily call to him so that D could talk with him. We have not seen one another since March 25th, and he has told me the past two weekends, do not plan on coming over. I have said very little, but this all hurts. I honestly do not know what to do (if anything). I know something has to be going on that I am unaware of as none of what transpired in our conversations could have caused this rift. It just does not add up. Please pray for us as this is hard on D as well. I have been shedding a lot of tears this past few days. I am praying for an answer, God's answer to this situation. Thank you.

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{{{{{{{{{{{{{Oneday}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>I will be praying for you. I read the following verses and thought they might help lift you up. <BR> <BR>(Psalm 25:15-21, NLT)<BR>"My eyes are always looking to the LORD for help, for he alone can rescue me from the traps of my enemies. 16<BR>Turn to me and have mercy on me, for I am alone and in deep distress 17 My problems go from bad to worse. Oh, save me from them all! 18 Feel my pain and see my trouble. Forgive all my sins. 19 See how many enemies I have, and how viciously they hate me! 20 Protect me! Rescue my life from them! Do not let me be disgraced, for I trust in you. 21 May integrity and honesty protect me, for I put my hope in you. "<P>Heavenly Father, You are almighty, the great healer of all wounds and broken hearts. Only You are worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honor and power; for You created all things, and by Your will they exist and were created. Rev 4:11 Thank You Lord for hearing our cries for help. Thank You Lord for the answers to prayer that You send us. Oh, Father, please speak to Oneday's husband's heart, convicting him of his sins bringing him to true repentance. Father, I pray that Your love and joy fills Oneday's husband's heart, forgiving him of his sins. Lord I pray for Oneday, asking for a greater infilling of the Holy Spirit for her. Cover her and her daughter in your protection, place a hedge of thorns around this family so that the enemy cannot attack. Thank You Lord for moving in their lives, and drawing each of them close to You. In Jesus name I pray, AMEN

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AW' thank you so very much for the prayer and the scriptures.


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