Hi,<BR>Some of you old timers on this board may remeber me from last summer.....I was pregnant, H was having an affair (brief/painful) with a girl from South America. Well, we had a beautiful daughter, H has been a wonderful husband and daddy...we are making plans for the future. Problem is....he's involved with a site called adult friend finders that finds willing participants for erotic e-mail, chat, even 1 on 1 meetings. They advertise as "discreet" so even if you're married they will hook you up. Well, Friday, I found out about some flowers he sent several months ago, to a friend out of state...the message was indeed friendly, not erotic. The same night, I also found out i am pregnant again. It was a huge surprise for us both...we went through fertility treatments for 2 years to get our daughter. And I only tested to be sure i wasn't pg in order to begin taking diet pills. Anyway, I asked H if he was indeed committed to our family, he assured me he is.....yet, he accidently forgot to sign off his e-mail before work today. He is getting mauil from women at adult friend finders where he has responded to their personal ads...as recentkly as today. I read his profile...he does not say he is married...says he is interested in 1 on 1 sex...someone to challenge him sexually. I am crushed. i don't believe he has actually crossed that line yet, but he is in grave danger. I have been on my knees praying all night. When he calls me from work, I will let him know i saw the e-mail, and that I am hurt, then will mention it no more until/unless I make a decision about what to do. Please pray for us...i feel we are at a huge crossroads. i have felt that God is at work in our lives...things are in motion that can better our family and finances....doors are opening, but we have to be a team to make it happen. Again I beg you to pray with me.....this site is the refuge that helped me use prayer to change and improve our marriage last year. I could think of no better place to return. I now prayer works, I know God has the plan, and I know He won't let me down.<P><BR>...an ironic twist.....I half jokingly told a friend of mine after the birth of my daughter that H may never change, so since I wanted 2 kids, but didn't want to be the kind of woman who has tons of kids all by different daddies, that I would keep him until I had another baby then set myself free........no better example of how words once spoken have power. God protect my family.<BR>Amen<P>Kim

Kim,<P>Congratulations of the baby girl, that is wonderful!! I am sorry to hear about your h's activities. I know you posted this yesterday, but I hadn't seen it. So I am hoping that you could talk with your h. <P>I don't remember all the details, is there a Pastor that could meet together with the two of you. He is playing with fire and not only will you and your children be burned bur he will. He is bringing evil into your home and exposing the children to it to. I'm sure you know this.<P>Lord, I lift up kim and her h and children and ask that you close the doors that no man should open and open the doors to Christ. Lord, I pray that you show powerfully to this h who he is and what he is doing with this behavior. Lord, he is the head of this family but yet he is not protecting his family but opeing the door for thiefs to come in and steal their lives from them. Lord, work in his heart, bring him to his knees and open his eyes to the beauty of the wife of his youth and their daughter. In Jesus name and by His blood let there be a hedge of thorns around them that no evil may penetrate. In Jesus name, Amen.<P>

Hi emptynomore, <BR>I do remember you, and I will be glad to pray for you and your husband. What Satan intended for evil, God can and WILL turn to good for His glory! Believe that! Speak it!<P>Sister, I know you must be so very hurt right now. I wish I could just give you a big hug and let you cry on my shoulder. Sometimes it just helps to cry it out. Jesus is right there ENM, waiting for you to call out to Him. Read the Psalms tonight, and cry out to the Lord as David did. He hears your prayers and will wipe away every tear. <P>Father, I thank You for hearing our prayers for emptynomore, and answering them. Thank You Lord that You have everything under Your control, and You will work things out for the good for emptynomore, because she loves you. Lord, our faith and trust is in You and no other. Father, I ask in Jesus' name for Your divine intervention in ENM's husband, revealing his sin to him, convicting him in a mighty way. Father, let this man be touched by Your Holy Spirit like he has never been touched before. Bring him to his knees in true repentance, ready to turn his life over to You, completely. Father, I thank You that You are our redeemer, the One and only One we lean on and trust in. Lord, help ENM to have strength, give her the words You want her to say. Father, I pray that You will send Your ministering angels to ENM's husband, to speak the Word unto him, Father, I ask that the Holy Spirit woos ENM's husband even harder, go after this lost sheep with a vengance please Lord. In Jesus' precious name I Pray, AMEN<P>ENM, Satan hears every word you speak, and will use them to get to you. So, from this point forward, speak about your husband in the "as though" mode. I.e., speak OUT LOUD the Word over him such as "my husband loves me as Christ loves the Church and gave himself for it", and "my husband is a Holy Spirit born again on fire for God man!" Pray a hedge of thorns around your husband every day, ENM. First and foremost, put God at the head of your marriage, and your life. <P>Some verses to encourage you:<P>Psalms 91:9-12 "Because you have made the Lord, who is my refuge, Even the Most High, your dwelling place, No evil shall befall you, Nor shall any plague come near your dwelling; For He shall give His angels charge over you, To keep you in all your ways. In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot against a stone."<P>"Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away." - Mark 13:31<P>I feel for you emptynomore,<P>AW<BR><I>'But He knows the way that I take; when He has tested me, I shall come forth as gold." - Job 23:10</I>

Hello emptynomore<P>Read your posts and felt for you. I prayed for you believing that God will work in your life and bring your husband to true repentance.<P>Be strong for your little ones, and may God be with you and bless you all.<P>We love you in Christ<P>------------------<BR>CPL

Praying for you again! I remember being pregnant together last year and your great joy at your H's seeming recommittment and the birth of your daughter. Stay close to the Lord and walk in His paths. Pray for the guidance of His staff. So sorry to find out things are in a deep pit again!<P>Dear Father in Heaven, Please bless Kim and her family. Draw them unto you. Give Kim peace in her heart and a sure knowledge of what to do. Bless her husband with the sharp pricks of conscience. Convict his heart. Help them to both find thy face. In Jesus' name, Amen