I've been wandering around reading the various discussion groups,sometimes posting. But I was starting to feel very uncomfortable,but just not quite ready to give up. Then I saw this group.I "think" this is what I was looking for. But I feel bad when I read about some of the situations you other ladies find yourself in, mine doesn't seem to be so bad. It makes me feel like such a crybaby. God bless you all for having such strengths and convictions. I need to go buy this book you talk about and read it. I just wanted to say thank you for being here. I'll continue to read and maybe sometime I'll have something worthy to post. I feel better already knowing there is place like this.