Hi, I usually post under reconc. been trying very hard to rebuild my life after H of 30 yrs just left! OW of dubious morals and colourful past now living with him 9 mths. In laws meet with her and lunched (call themselves christians) have no contact with me or 3 kids 26,23,24. just said these things happen, no mention of adultery, marriage vows etc. this wk has been really hard told H 1mth ago D had car crash, 2day texted her to say your mother tells me u had accident are u ok. inlaws sent her card saying don,t know why u are angry, last C,mas eve our 1st apart in 40 yrs I tried to go to sleep forever! this yr I need to be strong for my children--want my H to come home and be well again, he loved his kids now nothing no contact they did tell him they want nothing to do with him til he ends A. Pain never far away and tonight I am being swallowed up by a tidal wave. Please remember us all in your prayers.H is called G.

Naej,<p>Welcome to Marriage Builders. I am sorry for your situation. Not having much family support can feel devastating. You will have support here. Please read the concepts section under the MB logo above. <p>Many find it helpful to post their story on the Just found out site and then post either here or on General Questions II. <p>You will find that the people here are suffering in ways similar to yourself. They may offer insight and suggestions based on what we individually have seen or experienced. <p>Hugz, you will survive through this. <p>Take Care,
L.

Naej,<p>I will keep you in my prayers. I cannot fathom the great heartache you must be feeling over all that has happened. God sees your pain, Naej, and He is with you. Cling tightly to Him, and let His love wash over you.<p>Here is a link to a website that may help you:
http://www.rejoiceministries.org/quest1.html<p>So many times when I am feeling bad about my situation, their website and newsletter speaks right to my heart and lifts me up.<p>I will pray for you right now, Dear Heavenly Father, I thank You for Your love for Naej, Father, please cover her with Your love and protection. Today I ask that You would send ministering angels to her, to help her get through these rough days. Father, please fill naej with Your peace that passes all understanding. I pray that You would give her a glimpse of how You are working in her life and her husband's life. Lord, please reveal the Truth of Your Word to her husband, let him see that this OW is as bitter as wormwood, and her steps will lead them to the pit of hell. Father, I pray that You will reveal to them the meaning of Your Word in Proverbs 5,6, and 7. Lord, I praise Your Holy Name, we worship and adore You. Thank You Father for all the blessings You have given us. Father, I thank You for blessing Naej, for the peace and comfort You are sending her. In Jesus' name I ask and pray, AMEN

Naej,<p>I'm sorry, too, for your great sorrow and heartache. I will be praying for you also. For today, may God richly comfort you and hold you in His loving arms. He sees all you are going through.