On monday, my H told me that it was not going to work, he was not willing to give up his friendship with OW and as soon as he had money would file for divorce. I continued to Plan A.<p>The next day, yesterday, he did a complete turnaround. Came clean with everything that he had done and was feeling guilty about, told me that he definitely wanted to give it a shot and even asked me to move back in because he felt that it would not work if we were not living as H and W.<p>I want to go home more than anything right now, but am not sure what to do, I am scared, excited and nervous at the same time. I am completely thrilled with the fact that he is finally being honest, but still do not want to get my hopes up.<p>I asked for your prayers and support on Monday night and it definitely helped. Thank you so much to everyone who included me in your thoughts and prayers.

Emerald,
This is good news.<p>When God is at work, and your H is sincere, there is no rush, if it is real, a few days won't change that...talk through what you need to see from him, whether it is counseling, the 4 Rules of Successful Marriage, his accountability, how he's going to end it with the OW, preferably the no contact letter, but I understand she isn't the sharpest crayon in the pack, so she'll probably contact him with a "what IS this", and how he will handle that.

Hi Emerald,<p>Listen to Lor. She knows what she is talking about. <p>I agree with what Lor has to say. Take the time to figure out what you need to be reasured and what he needs to do to win your love and trust back. He also needs to show you by actions. Such as accounting for all his time and the like. <p>I will pray that his heart is changed for good and for your relationship.

Hi Emerald<p>Prayer does work - but warning: Infidelity is a rollercoaster ride. Oh, sorry, you already knew that, huh?<p>Welcome to MB, post often! We are a great group of ladies that will stand in the gap for you in prayer anytime. <p>God Bless You, and Keep You.<p>TNT