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#359011 02/06/00 12:04 PM
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Hello, dear friends.<P>I can't post much. It seems that PT is lurking. Don't worry, our love is strong and everything is moving as planned and looking really, really good. We are happy.<P>But hatred and violence has reared it's ugly head and there has already been a bit of trouble. We are doing what we can, but I ask you once again for your prayers. Please pray for our safety, especially his. <P>I can't say any more right now. Thank you all for being there.<P>Love,<P>Lori

#359012 02/06/00 12:07 PM
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Lori,<BR>I'm so glad you and your H are doing good.<BR>Wouldn't ya know it though, the OW is having a hard time letting go. <P>Please you and H be careful. I will pray for your happiness and safety.<P>Mitzi

#359013 02/06/00 12:10 PM
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Request Granted.<BR>I'm rooting for you and praying daily.<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com

#359014 02/06/00 12:31 PM
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Lori,<P>I am glad to hear that things are going on schedule for you and your H. I am sorry to hear that things with PT have gotten so ugly. My prayers go out to you, your H and your D. <BR>If you need a "PT free" place to vent and share you know where to find me.<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<p>[This message has been edited by Patient Love (edited February 06, 2000).]

#359015 02/07/00 01:53 AM
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Lori,<P>I will pray big time....big time.<P>I will e-mai you and offer you a safe haven.<P>God will be by you so will all of us.<P>Glad that things are going well! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Keep up the bonding process.<P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! With God on our side we can't loose. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B>

#359016 02/06/00 05:05 PM
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Thanks, guys, it means a lot to us both. I had no idea that this situation could get so dangerous.<P>Mitzi - THAT'S the understatement of the year!! "You're not going anywhere" now takes on a whole new meaning. Thank you.<P>Jamie-lee - You're so sweet. Thank you so much for your prayers.<P>Nicole - Thanks, Sweetie. I'll fill you in as soon as I can.<P>Sam - We ARE bonding and it is wonderful. Thank you so much for your prayers, they're so important.<P>Again, everyone. Thank you so very much.<P>Lori

#359017 02/06/00 08:44 PM
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Lori,<P>You have nmy prayers without ever asking, friend!!!<P>I will also add a prayer that PT moves along and you two can have this time to yoursleves........<P>Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

#359018 02/06/00 08:53 PM
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Lori,<BR>I understand your situation. I don't know the details but I have been where you are and we are still fighting the battle. It has been over a year.<BR>There will be times when it seems so unfair that you have to endure THIS too. The other was bad enough. But remember that he is with YOU and that is a BIG thing.<BR>I don't put details out because I am leary of someone lurking and using it against us.<BR>I would love to share with you personally if you want. <BR>Sara

#359019 02/06/00 09:13 PM
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Lori~<BR>You don't even need to ask, I'm there with all the prayers that I can offer. I pray that God sees you both through this difficult time. God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!

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Lori,<P>Prayers coming your way! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>Staying your way too! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim

#359021 02/06/00 10:39 PM
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Lori,<P>Prayers have gone up and will keep doing so. <P>Email me, please.<P><BR>dkohb@yahoo.com<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

#359022 02/06/00 11:43 PM
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Lori,<BR>Prayers just went up for your and H. God bless you, and Praise The Lord for your reconciliation!!!<P>God will take care of you, PT can't penetrate the hedge of thorns that have been requested to be placed around you and H. <P>Love to you,<BR>AW

#359023 02/07/00 02:03 AM
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Prayers from Mexico, Lori (every day).<P>Alex

#359024 02/07/00 07:29 AM
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You guys are wonderful. I'm sitting here waiting to get my morning phone call telling me he's fine and made it through another night.<P>Desiree - thank you, Sweetie. Guess anything worth having is hard-won, huh?<P>Sara - thanks. I know several of us have had to deal with this crap! My address is ldodge6209@aol.com and I LOVE e-mails!! I do hope after a year things are settling down for you guys.<P>Chicks - I so appreciate your prayers! They mean so much.<P>Jim - you're a doll. I just knew you'd be there for us too.<P>Deb - Thanks for the good thoughts and prayers. E-mailing you today.<P>AW - thank you so much. I am worried, but I do somehow feel safer than perhaps I should - like we ARE gonna be protected somehow.<P>Alex - Hi. That's so sweet of you. Thank you so very much.<P>Thanks again, everyone. I will try to get back to you all once the worst of the storm has passed. I knew it could get sticky, but I think I underestimated her. He says, "don't worry, you know how much I love you.". <P>Lori

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Hi Lori,<P>please you and your H take care,<P>my prayers are heading your way<P>hugs to you<P>Jo

#359026 02/07/00 11:25 AM
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Hi -<BR>You and I talked a little about this, remember the thought that occurred to me? Well, maybe the thought had some sort of creedence. <BR>I am sure you know what to do now. <BR>email me at: mncon99@yahoo.com<BR>thanks.<BR>

#359027 02/07/00 03:11 PM
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He called and asked me to meet him for a bit this morning and bring a jacket he had left here. It was nice to see him during the week. Things are still on schedule, I think, we had a nice talk.<P>Hi, Jo. Glad you're here. Thanks for the thoughts and prayers.<P>TNT - yup, you were right!!! Got to go take care of a couple of things, but I'll e-mail you in a bit, ok? <P>Talk to you guys later.<P>Lori

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Lori,<BR>You and your H are in my prayers also. I don't know the details either, but if you would like to, please feel free to email me also. labutterfly68@hotmail.com I have used the email support system when I was uncomfortable posting too.<P>I will also pray that PT learns to let go and move on. (and to stay away from married/attached men).<P>Thoughts & Prayers,<BR>Butterfly<P>------------------<BR>There are deep sorrows and killing cares in life, but the encouragement and love of friends were given us to make all difficulties bearable. <BR>-- John Oliver Holmes<P>The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.<BR>-- Elie Wiesel<P><BR>

#359029 02/07/00 04:02 PM
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You will be in my prayers too. Good luck. Dana<BR>

#359030 02/07/00 04:48 PM
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Hmm i seem to be starting to amass candles.. Strange how that works...<P>You got it angel<P>James

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