I decided to go to school and guess what? Hubby is suddenly so nice to me. (makes me wonder what he's up to) He knows I'll be gone for awhile (school is 200 miles from home).<P>When I graduate there is no work of that type in our area. I'll have to travel or move to work in my field of choice. <P>I've been really looking forward to getting away from here. Now he's hanging on to me! <P>Why couldn't he have been this nice when I planed to stay here. Now that I'll be leaving in a month, he can't get close enough and wants to spend every minute with me.<P>I've considered canceling the school and staying home. If I do that, I'm afraid he'll revert back, then I'll be right back where I started. <P>Any ideas?<P>Keo

Is there anyway you can go to school as you've planned, and also work on the marriage? For example, can he eventually move? Or the two of you visit on weekends until the timing is right for a more permanent living arrangement together?<P>Congrats that HE is chasing you now.<P>SamH

Sounds like now that he knows he can lose you he wants to hold on. I wouldn't cancel school tho. he might just revert back to same behavior because he has you there. Good luck on your decision. One question tho. can your school be put on hold for a little bit so you can test out your theory? <P>------------------<BR>Peg

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