Hi everyone....<BR>Well, it has been one week since my divorce. If you did not read my response to NSRS' prayer request, please accept my sincere thanks to all of you during this difficult time. <BR>We still see each other at work, and the OW came from out of town to spend the weekend with my X and the kids. It was hard, but not as hard as I thought. He did not acknowledge the divorce in any way to me. That probably bothered me more than the OW being here! I guess a " gee Sue, sorry" would have been nice. But then again, what can you say when it gets to that point??<BR>I am doing well, I see the light at the end of the tunnel for me. And that is to be the best I can be, so whatever relationship I choose to be involved in later, I will give it the attention it deserves.<BR> MB is such a wonderful tool regardless of which path your marriage takes. The lessons I have learned have been invaluable. I am not LB in any way to my X, and I think when the dust and guilt settle, we will be able to work and be civil to each other.<BR>I will post occasionally and will lurk, I am sure!! Again, thanks to one and all! <BR><P>------------------<BR>Susan<P><BR>

Susan....<P>{{{{{{{{{{<B>Susan</B>}}}}}}}}}}...<P>It is so good to hear from you again. <P>You've made my night. <P>You are moving on... and MB helped you... I know it will help me too! It really looks like I'm heading down your path.<P>I'm envious in some way with whoever you will find in a new relationship... he will be one of the luckiest men on the face of the earth!... and I know you'll find a life long love.<P>Keep the faith...<BR>Grow more with waht you learn here...<P>Remember... when we talk about Plan A... (as you lurk...) it is <B>the</B> plan you use for the rest of your new relationship!<P>Your friend... <P>Jim<P>