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Well, H called the kids tonite,,,and then asked to speak to me..about picking them up tomorrow. We go to court Friday for the final hearing...I asked him So, you still want this divorce? and he said YEP! and I asked are you ever going to give me the reasons why you left...and he said I dunno....I told him the kids would be here for him to pick up tomorrow and hung up. I just thought just maybe,,,just maybe. But, I should have known the door would slam in my face. I should have left well enough alone. Pray for him..pray that he wakes up from this. thanks
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Hon, hold your head high! Yes, this is the saddest thing you'll go through, maybe in your whole life, but God has a way of turning things around!<P>Your H won't give you the reasons. That doesn't mean that it's your fault that he left, it means that he cowardly and can't face the truth. His loss.<P>You will grieve, you will cry, you will hold your kids when they cry (and they will!) but you will get back up one day and find happiness.<P>I will pray for your H's heart, and I'll pray for peace for you. <P>Take care...<P>------------------<BR>Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you are among the stars!!
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{{{{{{{{{{<B>cbs</B>}}}}}}}}}}<P>I too will pray for <B>you</B>... and your <B>kids</B>... and your <B>H</B>.<P>Jim ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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Hi CBS -<P>I am soooo sorry that it has come to this....I am also facing it and my H never told me the reasons either.<P>It just stinks......there are really no adequate words to describe the feelings I know I have and I'm sure you have!!<P>Will we be left to always wonder "what the....."? I know that I feel like I was tossed in the air and haven't landed yet!!<P>I do PRAY.....that our H's will soon come back to the men they used to be and give us a clue and get a grip on real life!!!<P>BIG HUGS, STRENGTH AND PRAYERS,<P>Sheba<P>I will be with you in spirit tomorrow..<P>God.....what a nightmare!!!<P>Sheba
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cbs-<P>I am so sorry. I wish I knew what to say.<BR>I, too, am soon facing what you are. My H has not talked to me- just walked away.<P>We may never know the answers to what happened, but, cbs, God will be with you and your children.<P>I will pray for your H and for you and your children.<P>I am so, so, sorry. <P>Prayers to you,<P>Cheryl
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