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I am very sorry about your baby. My prayers are with you and your family.

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Hey....<P>as a survivor of many first trimester pregnancy losses ( 9 or 10 I think...)- I can deeply sympathize and although one can sometimes come up with many reasons why the timing may not have been right for this baby....it doesn't take away the loss of control a woman can feel with regards to her body. It is such a helpless feeling. And sometimes it always seems like no one ever says the "right thing"....<P>take care of yourself..<P>prayers are being said..

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schizzo -- I don't know that I have the words to express the sorrow I feel you your loss. We too have been through the loss of an unborn child, and I very understand very well the pain you must be feeling.<P>I will say an extra prayer for you as I hit submit.<P>God Bless

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I was so sorry to hear of your recent loss. Take care of yourself.<P>Beth

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Sorry and Prayers. <P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

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We lost our second child due to miscarriage. It was hard on both of us. I think she still suffers from the loss; she has been writing her name along with our boys names and her name. She has been leaving my name off her scribblings. I digresss.<P>MONDO HUG!!!!!!!!<P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. A glimmer of your baby's soul will live within you. Take comfort in knowing that. Claudia

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Schizzo,<BR> I can't begin to imagine the pain of your loss.I'm truly sorry.Take good care of yourself. --Murph

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schizzo<P>God bless you and your child. <BR>My prayers are with you all.<P>Jackh

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My thoughts and prayers are with you as you and your family go through this difficult time.

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I'm so sorry about the loss of your baby. I've lost 6 through early miscarriage, along with two little girls at birth. No matter when it happens, it's a terribly hard thing to endure.<P>Sending prayers your way.<BR>

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{{{{{{{{{<B>schizzo</B>}}}}}}}}}},<P>My prayers are with you...<BR>Your loss must be painful...<BR>I know in time you will find the inner strength to overcome this...<P>God bless and protect you... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim

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Schizzo,<P>I am so sorry for your loss. No one should have to go through the pain of loosing a child, especially on top of the pain of infidelity. I wish there was more to say here. I am glad you posted this and hope that the many responses your are recieving provides you with some comfort.<P>Acacia

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I am so sorry for your loss. I have been avoiding this post all day because I lost a baby due to a miscarriage almost two years ago. It is an incredibly huge loss and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about that baby! My prayers are with you! Please take care of yourself. This will be an especially stressful time for you!<P>~Woozy

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I'm so sorry about your loss.<P>Please take care of your self, physically and emotionally.<P>My prayers are with you.<P>--keystone

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Oh Schizzo, <P>I am so sorry - prayers and a votive candle going out.....<P>Please take care of yourself and build up your strength - physically, mentally and spiritually.<P>BIG HUGS, Prayers and Strength,<P>Sheba

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Schizzo ~ I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you find comfort in knowing your baby rests in the tender care of Our Lord and Saviour. <P>God Bless.

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I'm so sorry. I'll be praying for you and your family...

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I am overwhelmed by all your replies. Thank-you all so much. As I am still away from home, I have only now been able to log on and see if anyone responded, and I was blown away!<P>This is my second miscarriage, but I also have two wonderful children 5 and 2. My 5 year old told the babysitter today that mommy's baby died but it was in heaven!<P>It's hard being away from home, but my h has been wonderful. He set up a sitter for today so I could recover physically and emotionally since he had a conference he couldn't miss, he then cut out on the group dinner and took me out.<P>Despite what I said about not being ready for another baby, I do feel the loss deeply. I was surprised today at the intensity of my feelings. I found myself telling the baby I was sorry that there wasn't a place for him/her, that my body wasn't able to carry the pregnancy.<P>I felt rather lost. My life has been geared around Oct 4, my due date. I actually saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks and thought we had made it.<P>As to what I wrote to Keridwen this morning, this was definitely a miscarriage. Not sure why I started torturing myself wondering if the baby could have survived.

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Schizzo,<BR>I am so sorry for your loss, words can't say the feelings .....I am praying that you are well and that things work out for you...It's just to sad. God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!

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