Max:<P>Shame on me??<P>SHAME ON YOU!!! You don't know anything about me besides what I have been willing to share here, yet you have the gall to reply to one of my posts and call me a sicko and a wh*re. You were also "intelligent" enough to use the "f-word". You must be sooooooooo proud. Your mental capacity is quite overwhelming.<P> <P>Yes, I'm an adulterer who is married to a man who is complacent when it comes to relationships. But, would you believe that in seven years of marriage that my husband and I have NEVER cursed at or about each other? Would you believe that in SEVEN years, we have never called each other degrading names?<P>Let me make this clear for you:<P>My own husband doesn't speak to me the way that you did in your reply. My friends and my family do not speak to me the way that you did in your reply. So, I have absolutely no intention of accepting speech or behavior like that from YOU. <P>Got it?? <P>Good. <P>Jill<P>

Well said, Jill!!!!

[[[[[applause]]]]]<P>Good for you Jill. You may have made a mistake, but that doesn't leave you open to verbal abuse or any kind of abuse for that matter. You are not those things he called you or you wouldn't have the kind of conscience it takes to reveal your affair and take whatever happens as a result of that. I think you are a very brave person of good moral character who screwed up. Welcome to the human race. We all screw up or we wouldn't be at MB in the first place. We are here to help one another face our fears, offer moral support and (hopefully) good advice. You don't have to take anything off anybody. Bless your heart and soul. <P><P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com

This is probably exactly what needed to be said, Jill.<P>May the Lord Bless You and Keep You.<BR>John