Hi bc,<P>Did you go to Barnes & Noble and pick up the book? If you did, how do you like it so far?

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Yes I did get the book Saturday and started reading it yesterday. I don't know if it is a good thing or bad thing but it sounds like me almost to the t. I hope it will help. My H actually picked up the book and was leafing thru it although he didn't ask what it was about and I didn't offer any insight. <P>He knows that I have been reading numerous books (Surviving the Affair, Women who love too much, Private Lies, etc) and he thinks that I know have all the answers whatever that is suppose to mean. But on the other hand he doesn't think everyones relationship follows the rules.<P>I go to the lawyers on Wednesday. I think it is time to proceed. This having his cake and eating it too is become too much. Like the book says what is there about him that is so lovable. Not much anymore even though the feelings are still there. He lied thru his teeth Friday night about not having had any contact with the OW for two weeks when just that night I played my phone tape and she had called him twice and she actually had the nerve to go to my house. Enough is enough.