I asked a simple question and I get zero reply. Thanks Guys, I'm very impress. I guess i'm just loosing my time in this forum.<BR>Thank You,<BR>Anne T<BR>

Sorry Anne, I just replied to you. see above. I hope it helps, reply back and I'll see if I can help some more. Sometimes I find that people who are going through the same things at the same time are the ones that respond.

Anne,<P>Please don't give up on us. We are all living in a very emotionally unbalanced time with our lives. Sometimes we are in so much pain that a post right in front of our eyes can't be seen. <P>I will go look at your post right now.<P>Keo

Anne,<BR>Keosha's right. Besides, many of us bop in and out of here for quick moments during the workday, so you may have posted when nobody else was here or else they didn't have a chance to get down to your post.<P>It would be nice if these boards were like chat, but if we don't hit the "Refresh" button, we don't see who's posted since we logged on.<P>

You posted a thread at March 09, 2000 11:59 AM and don’t have a response within an hour so you get upset. Give people a bit of time. It is the middle of the day.

Dear Anne,<P>many don't get a response straight away, myself for example. I often don't get one for some 5-10 hours, BUT, it's not because no-one cares. I live the other side of the world, and the time difference is a killer!! I know the pain of waiting/wanting for someone to talk to, and there's no-one there.<BR>Don't worry, spend more time here and you will feel the caring, the support, the friendship and the love.<P>Sometimes, unless someone is going through what you are going through, right at that very minute, we (me) feel as though we have nothing to offer. That does not mean that we haven't read what you have posted, or thought about you and your situation. We have. Or maybe I should speak only for myself here. I have.<P>Don't be so harsh. We are all going through the worst times of our lives. We are here for each other, to the best of our abilities. I'm sorry we didn't live up to your expectations in this instance. I'm going to go and read your post now.<P>Take care, and settle down a little. We are here, and we will be here for you. OK?<P>big hugs to you<P>Jo

I'm in a cranky mood and apologize to the forum for responding to this one right now....but GEE, Anne, your angry sarcasm is positively dripping. <P>Take time to read all the valuable information found at this website. The posters here are wonderful people, learning how to grow in their relationships and having problems and advice to share, just like you. We aren't a panel of professional advice-givers who sit at our computers ready to pounce on every new post as it registers. Patience, please.<P>I realize you're upset. But how about not taking it out on us? Just talk to us.