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Frank Pittman calls an affair "temporary insanity." So much of what i read in these posts describe the irrational, confused, bewildering rationalizations of formerly reasonable people, now messed up by an alliance with someone other than their spouse. <P>There seem to be precious few success stories. Usually, through plan A or plan B, the betrayed spouses are hanging on for dear life, looking for any signs of hope, with the betrayers continue to rip them apart with apathy, vascillating etc. <P>My W is absolutely stuck in this place of making decisions totally opposed to the woman I and her friends have known. The affair is long over, but the insanity/confusion/disorientation stubbornly persists. <P>Any encouraging thoughts out there?

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Doc<P>I'm not really qualified to give you an answer so take this with a grain of salt.<P>From what I've read here on the site, I have learned that after the affair ends it takes from a few months up to 2 years (I think 2 years is right) for the betrayer to regain common sense.<P>Have you read Harleys articles? There are many of them and I'm sure one will address this subject. I wish I knew the address to post here for you. <P>All I can recommend is to Plan A as good as you can, and read everything on this site till you find the information you seek.<P><BR>Keo<P>


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