Divorce is never easy, but with infidelity, teenagers are probably at the most difficult age...where they "understand what has happened" but are in an emotional place where the impact of parent's infedility can be very harmful<P>This is our email addresses<BR> willbok99@hotmail.com<BR>if your daughter wants 2 write 2 my daughter<BR>email me.<BR>

<B>Willbok</B><P>Sorry for jumping in on this thread, as I know it wasn't meant for me but...<P>I was wondering if you would mind if I gave your e-mail address to my daughter who is now 14 and let her contact your daughter? I think it might do mine a world of good to communicate with another girl in her age group that is going through this.<P>Let me know here. I won't give it to her without your permission.<P>Again sorry for jumping in on this thread.<P>Much Love,<P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! With God on our side we can't loose. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B>

A Blessed Samantha,<BR>Of course you can give my e-mail address to your daughter. I cannot vouch for the responses my d will give to yours, but they can certainly try to communicate.<P>From what I know early teens are the worsy age for girls anyway and for them to find themselves not competing with mom for dad's attention, but with his lover, is very hurtful.<P>In my d case, it was who he chose to be with that hurt her more than anyone else as for me, it made little difference who it ultimately was, but the fact that my family and I had been there for her etc, made her betrayal so much worse, not that I have always felt that it was my H who was more to blame as he had a family, OW has never been married and does not have custody of her child.<BR>That is why my d has been so incredibly angry...and has directed this at me for over a year now, as her father does not and will not hear it from her. <P>I wish