For the past month my GF and I have been seriously working things out. Well, at least I thought we were. I thought we were in Plan A, but I recently found out that she was cheating on me again. She said the withdrawl was alot to handle.<P>I have forgiven her, because I have been reading that losing the OP isn't an easy task and because I love her. I know that breaking contact is about as hard as quiting smoking or quiting a drug habit. That's what the OM as become....a drug that has been slowly eating away at our family and whatnot.<P>I am calling out to the betrayers that have succeeded or are going through similar feelings that can help her with some moral support. It seems as though she's making great strides. She has posted to this board and is seeking help. I commend her for that. She is showing me that she can be trust worthy by giving me her email passwords and whatnot. I want to trust her, but it's hard. I know that love with guide me through this.<P>She recently posted some thoughts under the topic - Wrote OM Dear John Letter. I'm so proud of her for doing that and I'm proud of the steps she's taking. I really think that this time we'll pull through with everybody's help.<P>Thank you all!<P>Joey (lostandbroken)<BR>

yoo hoo! betrayers? wanna give this guy some input?<BR>good luck

Hi, Joey. Not the advice you're looking for but I wanted to keep this near the top.<P>Hang in there. Withdrawal IS tough. and she'll need all the love and support from you that she can get. <P>Lori