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W is coming to get the kids around 6:30. I have them again.<P>I'm gonna have a talk with her. Kinda apalogy. For pushing so hard. Then I want to tell her that I know she is confused. I know this from yall, and things she says(Posotive) and other things she says(nagative). I want to tell her to take the time she needs to get right, but I want things to stay like they are ie... me seeing them on a regular basis. <P>What should I do if She says thid id not what she wants.<P>I'm also gonna ask her to look at this site while she is here, is this a good idea also???<P>Thanks for the advice<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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You have visitation right don't you so she can't say anything about you seeing the kids. However she can say where like only at your house, can't visit them at her place. If this is want she wants then you say okay and be strong. You can tell her about the forum she will be the one who ask to look at it I don't think you should do much in the line of suggesting anything because she may feel you are pushing. You really have to learn to back off. Let things take their course in their own time. You want things done in a hurry and life doesn't work that way. It is going to take a lot of time to make even the most tiny babysteps. You have to learn to be patient. Slow down and take it easy. You do know what ou need to do you are just in too much in a hurry, Lots of prayers<P>------------------<BR>di<P>
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Well she came. I apologized. She said I wish Iwouldn't have said anything to you at all. She said I dont want to talk about it any more. OH WELL. I knew it would happen I'm Backing off now. Not Plan B, but just stepping back. Go to go for now my oldest son wanted to stay with me, and watch wrestling<P>Thanks.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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