I went to a plan B early because my H and I had an argument. Actually, he blamed me for something that I did not do. <P>Anyway, it seemed to have an effect. He was not happy about not talking to me. He seemed to be getting upset. He told the intermediary that he was enjoying talking to me.<P>Anyway, we have 2 small children and one had a pretty big meltdown and I had to call him and have him talk to her. <P><BR>I do not have any family here and live in a quiet neighborhood. I felt like I had to go back to a sort of modified plan B. I go out when he is here but am nice when he calls.<P>HE doesn';t look too happy anyway. He looks miserable. I, on the other hand, am getting better and better each day.<P>But this is new, actually on both of us. I believe he fell into this unsuspectedly. I am only about 2 months since discovery and a month since he moved out. <P>He knows how I feel based on my plan B letter. (I love him but will not talk about our relationship until he is out of that one)<P>With children who are so attached to their Daddy, how can you possibly do a true PlanB.<P><BR>Do you suppose I can let more time go by for him to come out of the fog alittle and then get tough again??<P>Actually, I have one child in school, so when school is out I will most likely leave this city for the summer. I guess that will really be plan B.