Still no job offers for my W. That means we are still living under the same roof. However the tension is not going away. It seems that she is locked into this angry mode and won't let go. She is still determined to separate. Plan A is having little effect. Prayers seem to be keeping the jobs away. So I pray constantly. I appreciate those who are remembering my family in prayer, thank you. I have some of you on my prayer list as well.<BR>

Hey I was just thinking of you!<P>Anger is good, it means plan A is working if it wasn't she would be indifferent.<P>Keep it up, no lb and make her think. (believe me I know!!)<P>Is she still in contact with OM? Is he still out of the country.<P>Her anger could also be withdrawal and frustration at where she is in life right now.<P><BR>prayers hopeful_1<P><P>------------------<BR>Cat<P>catfrommb@yahoo.com

I agree...her anger could be positive in the bigger picture.<P>Consider the theme..."I love you" "I love our family" "We can work this out"<P>Be strong.<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

As far as I know, OM is perminantly out of the picture. We basically coexist without much interaction. Any interaction from her is laced with anger. Otherwise she *is* indifferent. She can't ask anything nicely. This morning I LBed when she asked why my daughter was talking about "daddy's place" inferring that I had spoke to her about us separating without W around to protect herself against me blaming it all on her in front of the kids.<P>I asked,"why are you asking in an acusing tone." My attitude was not as good as it should have been. She said she wasn't acusing me of anything. I've been doing pretty good otherwise. Although I need to renew my commitment to being in control of the household and its activities and plans. I've been slacking a bit. She's wearing me down I guess.<P>I'm beginning to seriously consider Plan B. I'm having a hard time holding my tongue. I'll probably be posting questions about Plan B in the near future. Just this morning I was figuring that it has been about 6 months since the night they spent together. God may open up my big job possibility just in time for Plan B. We'll see.<P>Thanks again for your help. Both of you are so tremendously helpful. I can't tell you how much you are appreciated.