On Steve Harley's post, you replied:<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>A request: Could we have a forum on pornography. I've noticed that not everyone here views it as infidelity....or as damaging as an affair with a "real" OP. I know what your dad's opinion is but would like to see more info....maybe a Food for Thought suject?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>There is a forum "out there". I have to dig deep to find out how to subscribe again. It is specific to your request. I understand what you mean. Basically, I come here to the MB forum for relationship specifics and to the "other" forum for the other issues. As Steve told me though, it is a fine line between the two and you have to be careful in applying the two sometimes very different approaches to a situation like this. <P>I have been a professional lurker at the other forum for awhile now and have learned much. It is not like this one however in that you have to subscribe before even lurking. If you have any questions let me know. Ditto if you want the e-mail address to subscribe let me know and I will find it for you.<P>Cheers,<BR>Lisa