Well, we went out and talked last night. He came home with me. Woke up this am everything fine.<P>He was going to get his stuff and move out. I called on his cell ? time, something in his voice. <P>He said he couldn't do it.<P>WOW!!! I am so............P.O.'d right now. I can't believe it! You should have heard him last night and this am. On and on about how much he loved me etc.<P>I told him NOT to call me anymore. <BR>Get the papers filed. I can't believe this. <P>Called him back and asked him if it was intentional to get me XXXXed. He said no. We are supposed to meet once again so he can explain why. He doesn't know.<P>Wow Wow Wow!!! <P>I NEED TO GET OVER THIS! GET ON WITH MY LIFE. THIS IS SO UNBELIEVABLE!! DID I REALLY EXPECT ANYTHING LESS?????<P>TRACY

Just called him again. He asked me why I wanted to meet. I said so I could talk to him. He said no, don't want to talk to you and hung up.<P>WOW!!! This is all I can say!!

(((Tracy)))))<P>I'm sorry he hurt you like that again.

Hey troublec,<P>Just wanted you to know I'm in the same boat you are, and I'm just as tired of the crap as you are too. I have a thread out there about my wife's sudden turn around and then her 180 24 hrs. later. Right now I'm just numb. If anything I'm pissed. I spent most of the day Friday trying to decide if I still wanted to work on saving the marriage once she said she "had made a hugh mistake and wanted to save our marriage" only to come home that night and hear her say she doesn't know what she really wants .......hello? I guess we just go forward, with them or without them, we will be OK. I really believe that. For me, I am not going to get excited anymore at things she says. Actions are the only thing I look at from now on.<P>Good luck with your situation.<P>Brent

I am so sorry...my stbx never went that far...but....<P>One time he called me and asked me to meet him at a bar since the girls were spending the night at a friends house. He told me to call him back to tell him the place and time.<P>I was so excited.....I showered....dressed .....put make-up on...everything (I even shaved my legs LOL)<P>Well called him back....no answer....left him a msg...figured he was getting ready or had already left.<P>Arrived at the bar to find 2 police cars in the parking lot. I did not park...just kind of moved along. Called him from a payphone...no answer....then kept calling....I was heartbroken. Never got ahold of him that night. But found out the next day that he set me up. Was trying to have me arrested for being within so many feet of him because there was a restraining and protective order. Also he called his attorney and they were thinking about pressing charges against me for harassing communications too.<P>They play wonderful games don't they.<P>I am so sorry....but I would probably fall for another too.<P>Nancy