We went to a place in the city that the OM and I had first done our thing.<P>We decided to fight the demons by doing this for our first night. <P>The demons almost won. WOW! It was very hard. But after about and hour and a half, we got up to dance. We talked and talked about this new beginnig. It broke the ice, and I didn't really tthink of the OM. One battle won, the war is coming(letter day).<P>We went to breakfast and got home at a very ungodly hour! It was a kind of bittersweet fun, but it was a small milestone.<P>He bought me a pretty little black hills gold ring. It was to symbolize a new beginning for us. It was very sweet. All I have to do is look at my finger to have a physical reminder of our new beginning in any time of weakness!!<BR>( i sucked up my wedding set in a car wash vacum right after the rekindling of the relationship, not on purpose)<P>So, there it is, the beginning!<P> <BR>Mercy

Hooray for you! I was really happy to read this post! --HBC