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Do you want to hear something ironic? H is cheating OW with someone else,he has another on line interest.<P>If only I could tell OW!!!!<BR>I am so tempted.<BR>(what comes around goes around)<P><BR> Beth
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Beth...<P>Thank you for the e-mail...<BR>...today... I needed it.<P>About all your e-mails...<BR>...it's going to hurt for a while.<P>Can I be honest with you...<BR>...it will be time for you to stop looking at all those e-mails...<BR>...and move on...<P>Plan A even harder than before!<P>If all you do is confront your H... you'll be pushing him away.<P>If all you do is read... and keep it in... you'll be poisoning your love for him...<BR>...it's like you're stealing love units out of your own love bank for him.<P>You are having a hard time of it now...<P>Prayers to you... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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JIm,<BR> I will commit to stop looking.Give me strength.<P>My prayers to you on this day.Alot of people on MB care about you . You are not alone.<P><BR> beth
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It just goes to show you - he is searching for something. Is he having a midlife crisis?<P>Anyway, you need to be the rock now - the foundation. Stick to Plan A and always be upbeat and positive. It's going to be hard, but you can do it. <P>My H talked to several women online, and met a couple of them - and still he was searching. Plan A is working for me. The danger is still there, but it is diminishing. You just have to be attentive and calm - it's hard, but you will be rewarded. Remember, what goes around, comes around.........for you too!
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Toots-oo7,<BR>Thank you for reminding me what comes around goes around for me too. I will try to stay focused on plan a.beth
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