Well i knew it would happen sooner or later. Her Mr. wonderful PISSED her off.<P>I went to pick up my oldest son for the weekend( I get the baby today). I got there before she did and had to wait. No big deal, it was rainy and I knew traffic would be bad.<P>Well we went up to her apt. She looked pissed when sh got there. didnt say anything. I asked if she had a bad day, she said (with a little tone to her voice) NO. <P>She started getting his thing together, and I went into the kitchen. Ther were beer bottles all on top of the trash can, not inside it(6 pack).<P>She came in there and said what is that. I said looks like you had yourself quite a party last night. She said those aint mine. I said somboby drank them.<P>She said she gave the OM a key to her apt to wash clothes(THAT MAKES ME MAD)<P>Well he sat around and drank beer while he washed clothes. SHE DID NOT LIKE THIS. She says now I know what he does in his spare time, and then she said I guess this makes you happy. I said it does.<P>She said I dont need that in my life. I LOVE IT. GOOD OM KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.<P>Also she told me that she would bring the baby to me around 6pm today. I said I thought it was at 2pm. She said she did'nt know if she could handle being away for that long. I said it sux, but I do it everyday.<P>I aslo tod her to bring good clothes for church. She then got a gloomy look on her face and did not reply.<P>That is all for now<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

Well she just called and said she was brining the baby over at 2pm. <P>She told me OM called her last nght about 9:30. Shge was asleep. he saidhe was home, she asked what he did lastnight, he said he was playing pool with a friend. She said Well I guess your trashed and let him go. ( GOOOOOOOOD) <P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P><p>[This message has been edited by brownphd (edited December 04, 1999).]

Well I just got back from picking up the baby.<P>She was sad when I left. I asked if she was alright, she said no(cause baby was leaving).<P>I said I know it sucks, she said the whole situatin sucks. I said nothing although I wanted to say lets do somthing about this situation.<P>I asked if she put clothes for church. I also asked if she was going. She said not at the same time we were, cause it wasn't fair for her cause she would be uncomfortable.<P>Were supposed to decorate the tree tomorrow, we will see how that goes.<P>SEBA, i reconized hat she was not the "EVIL CLONE WIFE" when I picked up my baby.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

hey Brown,<P>WAY TO GO. I know we shouldn't have joy at others 'misfortunes' but I felt so good reading your post.<BR>Yay - he's not so wonderful after all. <BR>She sees you picking up the babies, caring and loving them, and feels you loving her through all this sh##, and she sees him - what - drinking beer while doing a bit of washing. Yay, yay, yay !!!!!<P>Keep depositing those love units, you're doing so good. Keep your chin up, and keep positive.<P>She's so gloomy because she's not happy. She's beginning to see why.<BR>Give her a little more time, and a little more space - and keep doing what you're doing.<BR>Don't push about church or the Christmas tree. If she doesnt want to do the tree today, do it next weekend. The tree can wait for another week. So what if everyone else's is already up and decorated. Wait for her to want to do it with you. <P>You have just given me my first smile of the day. Thanks.<P>Take care of you and those babies<P>A big hug for you<P>Jo

brownphd,<P>Good things... with little steps first!!!<P>Jim

bonnet, i'm up with the baby now. i see on the caller id were she called once. i called her earlier and told her that a friend and his wife wanted me and the kids to come over and have dinner.<P>i'm glad i made you smile, you need to smile a little<P>NSR, i know baby steps, baby steps<BR>thanks<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

brownphd,<BR> You mean, you mean, YOU MEAN it is actually POSSIBLE for these OP to actually MAKE A MISTAKE? In ALL the wonderful wacky world of infidelity I NEVER THOUGHT IT POSSIBLE!!! My W used to complain about a missing tooth I have (doesn't even show in my smile) and OM HAS A FRONT TOOTH MISSING!! <P> I thought these sleazbags were PERFECT! Unlike us!! <BR> Glad to hear about the "leak" in the bubble!! Alcohol abuse is a TIME BOMB in YOUR favor!! Good luck!! FRANK

when my H takes my babies out to do something fun without me, my heart is just wrenched...and, well, if my only solace was a beer drinking "guy", i'd really think HARD about what i was doing.<BR>it's a tiny light, but it is there. hang on, brown.

Thanks for the replys, I guess she is not mad at him now. She is acting diffrent to day, I fixin to post about it.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>