HI,<BR> Been there done that. STOP TAKE A BREATH DO ANYTHING BUT WHEN SHE'S DONE TAKING STOOOOPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!<BR> I pushed and pushed and one day I got an answer I didn't like and I MADE HER LEAVE!! <BR> I PUSHED HER RIGHT INTO OM'S ARMS!!<BR> She just told me this week that if I didn't do that, she would have NEVER LEFT!! OUCH!! <BR> <BR> It happend forget it. Tell her you're sorry. Don't worry, it will pass. HOWEVER, if you keep doing that, she WILL leave.<BR> NO JUDGEMENTS, NO ANGER, NO TEACHING!!<BR> <P> She's here now, consider yourself lucky let Dr' Harley and US teach her.YOU, just LOVE HER and FORGIVE. Let us handle the rest. AND........FIND OUT YOU'RE PART and GROW!!<BR> <BR> YOU SAID......<BR>"I don't have anyone to talk to about this but the councelor and that is only once a week"<P> YOU SHOULD VENT HERE ONLY!! EVERYDAY if need be!!!<P> YELL, SCREAM, STOMP, CRY WHATEVER!! That's what WE ARE FOR!! DO IT HERE!!! There are some WONDERFUL people here that care, real life angels, use them. Help others. GROW!!!<BR> Here's my Email address if you need me. The board is slow on the weekends.<P> GOOD LUCK & PRAYERS FRANK<BR><P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>