Jill, <P>There is a woman who has posted in the Emotional Needs section who appears to be considering getting involved in a situation similar to yours. I really think she could benefit from your feedback. <P>Here is the link <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/000793.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/000793.html</A> <P>Please help if you can.<P>May the Lord Bless You and Keep You,<BR>John