I am curious about this question. I read over and over again that the WS was/is having a MLC. I have done some reading on this, and think I have a good idea what it's all about, but any advice I could get on the subject would really help me.<P>Is the "fog" they're in due to MLC? My H's personality has changed so much. He cries all the time, is lying to me constantly, the cell phone calls to 2 OW. Yes, he's still at home, but is very conflicted about being here. His relationship with his children is going downhill. I told him that he may need to move out if the reason he's never home is that he doesn't want to see me. I think his relationship with our kids (3 teens) may improve if he moves out.<P>The latest....a friend of ours (this person happens to be his boss) lost his mom last week. H came home and told me about it, and said he (we) didn't go to the service because it happened when H was out of town. In my snooping, I found the funeral program and prayer card in his suit pocket. HE WENT TO THE FUNERAL! I mean, I don't care if he went to a funeral, I probably wouldn't have gone anyway. Why lie...he probably went with the OW that he works with. He will do anything to keep me away from his office, and his co-workers.<P>I'm sure people at work know about this. He has been with this Co. for 20 years, and I know these people very well. Should I stay away from his work as he wishes, or start showing up unnanounced? That would probably be a huge LB, but at least they would know I'm still part of the picture.<P>Ok, I'm ranting when I really just wanted to ask you guys about your experiences with your/or your S MLC.<P>Thanks guys <BR>