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Has anyone ever hired a private investigator?
#378496 05/04/00 03:41 PM
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Has anyone ever hired a private investigator? I am thinking about doing this. My H previous affair was always when he was out of town with her, and I think it is going on again.<BR>
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#378497 05/04/00 03:56 PM
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I thought about it....<BR>It does cost a bit... you'll just need specifics, like where hes staying things like that... they usually take credit cards over the phone..... I called once but chickened out... two people would've watched him... anyway... if you really want to.. just call the city where he'll be and give them the info.......
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#378498 05/04/00 04:55 PM
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I did. It's not a big deal. Anything you tell them they have heard a zillion times. I was nervous at first, but these people do this all day long. It actually felt good to have someone on my "team" for a change. Hope you are wrong about your H, though.
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I did at the suggestion of my lawyer. I filed for divorce, but needed proof of adultery in order to circumvent the 6 month waiting period. They follow them around whatever time of day or night you want. They can't go inside houses or stuff like that, but they can tell you who they are with, how long they were together, if they spent the night, where they went, etc. It is a bit pricey, but worth it if you are going to court. It did feel sleazy though.<BR>
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Hey! How much does something like that cost? I am thinking about it too?<P>------------------<BR>NotSure2K

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