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well, his bags are packed.... he's leaving...<P>He asked if he could stay and "we could just live like we've always lived"..and"we could work things out more" (divorec splitting things)... he told me asking him to work on this marriage is like him asking me to swim the lenght of the lake we live on 3 times..."It ain't gonna happen"<BR>I told him that as long as the affair is going on, he would have to leave... He would stay, but feels I'm pushing him out..........<BR>How and he expect me to put up with this... yes she lives abroad, but they talk 3 times a week at least and he plans to see her this summer......<P>anyway....... don't know if I'm soing the right thing...............s
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scoick,<P>I know Steve was saying stay with Plan A...<BR>...I was suggesting Plan B...<BR>...and now he's out.<P>Maybe your rushing things just a bit...<BR>...but I won't second guess you.<P>Only you know how long each plan should last...<BR>...or if you want to go with a "tough love" approach.<P>This will be a tough time for you.<P>Stay here and ask for support... you'll need it!<P>Prayers...<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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