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I need some advice/help...thanks
#379949 05/13/00 12:29 AM
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H just called and told me he is going to Fla with some old friends (a mix of about 9 couples and singles-some I know, some I dont) this Sunday, I guess for a week or so. I asked if OW was going & he said no...he was planning on "clearing his head" while he was gone.(ive heard that many times) He wants to come see me tonight (without asking I know he'll spend the night with OW Saturday). I dont know what to say tonight, how to react, what to think. Im almost shaking.....I am in plan A (almost 2 weeks) and am doing ok..I do overquestion him about OW (she's pregnant). I dont think I can stay in plan A very long (OC is due in Oct and H spend more time with OW than with me.) help/advice/suggestion??????<BR>Thanks<BR>Kris
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#379950 05/13/00 12:37 AM
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Dear Sad: I can only offer my prayers and hugs to you. I hope you will feel better as time goes on. What's on the agenda tonight? Can you do something that will take your mind off of the issue? Something fun that maybe you can involve friends or family. You need to take care of you which I am sure you have heard so many times before. Is there a good band in town that you can go see or something? I wish you a good evening/weekend. Take care
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#379951 05/12/00 01:16 PM
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H doesnt take me out anymore, he saves that for OW and friends. He just comes over and "hangs out", plays with our son and leaves within a few hours. We have a gym in the basement & will probably work out together which is nice. I need to keep a tight reign on my tounge tonight, thanks for your prayers and hugs. I already told him if he's taking OW to Fla, dont bother coming over tonight, I cant handle that too (I know that was a LB....) oh well, pressing forward. Thanks sobeit. Godbless you.<BR>Kris
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#379952 05/12/00 02:23 PM
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SISL,<BR>I wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you tonight. I hope that it goes well and you can avoid the LB's. I know how hard that can be. <P>Take care,<BR>Audrey

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