The divorce is final. She is trying dump the 1st OM and date another. She is lying to all of them and herself. Come to find out there were more than just one OM...<P>I am not involved with anyone else and feel relived that this is over. I look forward to a bright future without her. <P>May God bless you all and may we all live with a healthy fear of the Lord.<P>T2/Rob

Rob - <P>I don't know if you're still here but I felt I needed to respond.<P>I have been here on MB about 10 months...W's affair almost 1 year. She is dovorcing me and I expect it to be over within a month.<P>Although I don't post much anymore (there is NO hope of reconciliation with W), I have not stopped lurking. It is really sad that there are so many new people here...each day it seems.<P>I feel for you for I know exactly what you've been through. I truly hope that God brings peace into your life.<P>------------------<BR>He who has a "why" to live for can bear with almost any "how".<P>-Nietzsche-

God will bless us with or without our wives.<P>I wonder where their fear of the Lord is. There is much difficulty ahead for those who blatantly disobey such clear commands. May God grant them repentance.<P>I have found peace with this whole mess. My peace centers on my relationship with Jesus Christ. He alone is my salvation and eternal hope.<P>I feel at peace with my decision. She can face the consequences of the life she has made for herself alone. She violated the bond of marriage and pursued a divorce. I feel free to let her go and enjoy the life God has given to me. I pray that I may fulfill the purposes He has for me.<P>Christ's Peace,<P>Rob<P>

Wow Rob...your words sound as though they could have been written by me. I too wonder where their conscience is? Unfortunately, it took this crisis in my life to understand what faith in Jesus meant. Although I am ashamed that it took nearly 40 years to develop a relationship with Him, I'm so grateful that I did...despite the circumstances that precipitated it.<P>I constantly pray that my soon-to-be-ex wife realize just how far away from Christ she has strayed. A dear Christian friend of mine told me that if she were to die before she repents (not just for this sin) and asks for Christ's forgiveness, she will never get into the Kingdom of God. I pray that God pry Satan's grip from her soul.<P>I am finally coming to terms with what she has done and I am, like you Rob, also at peace. It has been a year since she walked out on me (and into the home of a married man with kids no less). I know that God has better plans for me...I can't wait to see what they are. God bless -