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Hi,<BR>I am married and recently found out that a woman loses her virgin and bleed when she has intercourse the first time with man. I would like to know<BR>1. Will a woman bleed to the extend the man would notice ? I mean does some woman bleed so little that it will not shown on the man's penis ? (sorry if you were offended by my words.)<BR>
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Hi Pure -<P>I am sure that it is different for each woman....<P>Some may bleed heavily and others might not bleed much at all. <P>I am a woman so am not sure about how much a man would be able to "feel" when encountering a hymen.....perhaps some guys will give you insight on that.<P>If you feel comfortable enough to talk about it - why are you asking? Are you doubting something? <P>Hugs,<P>Sheba
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I'm not a women, and don't know all the answers...<P>...but you might want to check out... <A HREF="http://www.allhealth.com/womens/..." TARGET=_blank>http://www.allhealth.com/womens/...</A> <BR>and do a "find it" (search) on "intercourse"...<P>Ladies on the forum... will be here to help in a while!<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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I can only answer from what tidbits of info I have and what I can say from personal experience!<P>Some women's hymen is a barrier that covers the entire opening; others have less of a barrier whether it be because of their physical makeup and/or because of activities that stretch or break the hymen (if it's not just a myth, it seems to me that horseback riding can do that??)<P>For me personally, I had NO bleeding at all (and no pain) the first time I had sex. And I know for a fact that I was a virgin. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif)
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Actually it's much more commom these days for a woman to have very little bleeding if at all. Women are much more active a lot younger and the hymen can break while trying to do the splits in P.E. class. <P>I'm not sure why you're asking, but if you think maybe your wife or someone else was not actually a virgin at the time that you were with her because you saw no bleeding, I have to say that this would be a VERY unreliable gauge.<P>------------------<BR>"I believe... this is heaven to no one else but me - and I'll defend it long as I can be left here to linger in silence if I choose to would you try to understand?" - Sarah McLachlan
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The first time I had sex we took it very slowly and it was terrific, and there was no pain or bleeding... there often is very little or none.<P>
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The use of tampons can also break the hymen, so no pain or bleeding does not mean the woman is not a virgin.
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