Well, I got moved on Friday. My sister helped me unpack boxes and everything turned out nice. H called about 11:30 Friday night to see if all went well and to ask me "what to do" because dog pee'd on carpet. Duh...even a dog can't hold it from 7:00 in the morning until 10:30-11:00 at night.<P>Saturday he played golf, but called to see if he could come over. Told him great, but he would have to hook up washer and dryer and hang a couple of big pics. He came over and did that and took me out to eat.<P>Sunday he called late afternoon and wanted to bring me some food from his mom's. Came over about 7:00, left at 11:30. Was affectionate, but not overly.<P>He said he would get appt to talk to someone. I'm going to give him some time to do this, but if he doesn't follow through I'm going to plan B until he does. <P>I made it okay through weekend, but must get back into my workout routine and staying busy this week. Don't want to be too available to H. <P>I'll be okay. Thanks for everyone's support and kind words on my other thread. Butterfly -- hang in there girl. I will too.<P>

Dear Janie,<P>Remember - plan B is for you - not to push him. When you can't take it anymore.<P>I was hoping your weekend was manageable! I'm glad he's been interested in you and being considerate. He's probably not overly affectionate because he's not sure what the heck is goin' on! Be patient. <P>God Bless.

Janie,<P>Sounds like he is having just as hard a time as you are with the move. Hang in there.

You hang in there. Fill your time with things you enjoy doing. <P>------------------<BR>Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experiences of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and success achieved. Face your deficiencies and acknowledge them, but do not let them master you. The marvelous richness of human experience would lose something of rewarding joy if there were no limitations to overcome. <BR>Viki