I read your reply to resilient and had a question....I have been faithful but my wife is currently having a EA with a M from the internet....long phone call, gifts, cards ect...says she is in love with him....this is the second since we got the net....first was for about 3 weeks....this one stopped the first one and they fell in love very fast....what did you or your H do to salvage your marriage....she is so cold to me and calls him when we are out....she will slip into the bathroom or run to the car to us her cell phone....we have been married for 12 years a have 3 children....any advise<p>[This message has been edited by Vol (edited June 19, 2000).]