I got..........<P>MY HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <P>Yes, today, June 24th is my 22nd wedding anniversary. And last night June 23rd my husband moved back home!<P>I've been living this nighamare, of the affair, for 3 years and it feels like I finally woke up!<P>Yes, plan A works for long term affairs. My husband's affair began 13 years ago. Discovery was three years ago when he moved in with OW. He came back for one year after he left but was still seeing her and left me again last year in July and moved back in with OW.<P>Tonight, or actually last night, he pulled in the driveway with his car filled with all of his clothing and personal items. He still has a number of things to bring home but seeing OW won't be a worry, at least not now. When he told her he was leaving her she made the decision to go to see her family in another state, and possibly move there. She'll be gone for 3 or 4 weeks. So H can go and get the rest of his things without seeing her.<P>The events that led up to his return are much to long to post right now. And I don't want him to roll over in his sleep and not find me next to him. So I'll try to post more of how this actually happened the beginning of next week when he is at work.<P>It's been a long road, and I know our work is still cut out for us. I can hardly believe he is home. He made so many promises as to when he would return and broke them all, all *expect* this last one.<P>I haven't posted much recently, but so many of you are on my mind and in my heart. I learned so much from so many. There is no way I could ever thank you all for the wonderful advice you have given me and the big shoulders you have for others to cry on. But I do want to say a special thank you to Jim. He was the first to post to me and his advice has always been sound, no matter how difficult times have been for him. Thank you Jim, I wish only the best for you. <P>Well that's it for now. I'll post more when I can. I'll being thinking and praying for you all. I'll be sure to stick around to try to lend a helping hand to others, as so many have done for me.<P>Good Night From a VERY HAPPY,<P>Fingers Crossed<P> <P>

Fingers Crossed,<P>I am more than overjoyed... <P>You have me smiling ear to ear.<P>Please be patient now especially with your H.<BR>...you've been blessed from up above.<P>Recovery isn't going to be all peaches and cream...<BR>...but you've made the first few steps...<BR>...and I'm sure you'll do more than fine.<P> <P>Jim

What an inspiring story! Wow. After so many years, you have your husband back. I hope you find the happiness you have worked so hard to have. You certainly deserve it!

Yess!!!!!!!!!<P> [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img]<P>Love and prayers,<P>Lori

I am so glad to hear this! It is so great to hear stories of hope after such a long time. <P>I have been wondering how you have been doing.

Your word are encouraging for me. H is back in town but has not moved back in.<BR>He is not ready and I'm starting to realize I don't want him back until he is. But we are working and trying....<BR>Good to hear others have gone thru this longer and still get back together. Also that you have tried before and the timing wasn't right.( God's timing) <BR>I am excited for you and would give the world to wake up and see my H lying next to me. You are Blessed!!<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Tyra

Fingers Crossed,<P>I am so happy for you. Another success story. Praise the Lord.<P>I can't wait to lurk and read the details and updates.<P> [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]<P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] With God on our side we can't lose! [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif[/img] What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B><p>[This message has been edited by A blessed Samantha (edited June 24, 2000).]

Absolutely Wonderful News, Fingers Crossed!<P>It's so inspiring to hear your H finally saw the light. Your diligence paid off. God Bless you both.<P>What I wouldn't give to have my H back as he was. Prayers and Patience.<P>Happy Anniversary!<P>Jo

WooHoo ! Yes, Yes, Yes !!!!! Thank you for sharing that FC. <P>But when you can share details please, you know how nosey I am ! Until then I'll be over here doing my happy happy, joy joy dance !<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>Hepatitis C, educate yourself ! <A HREF="http://hepatitis-central.com/" TARGET=_blank>http://hepatitis-central.com/</A>

Thank you for sharing this great news with us <BR>By knowing what happened to you and your H we all can have hopes [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]<P>I'll join Deb for a happy happy joy joy dance [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img]<BR>MF