I'm around for just a little while longer...<BR>...I'll be out of here tomorrow.<P>{{{{{{{{{{<B>Sheba</B>}}}}}}}}...<BR>{{{{{{{{{{<B>Sheba</B>}}}}}}}}...<BR>{{{{{{{{{{<B>Sheba</B>}}}}}}}}...<P>...oh you special one of wisdom.<P>You know "wisdom" isn't about being smart!<BR>...it's in graceously accepting your path.<P>I'm sorry you saw what you saw...<BR>...to be honest...<BR>...in time you will most likely see more of what you don't want to see...<BR>...you are, I know, preparing for the path I too will be following...<P>Our journeys may be more similar...<BR>...than even you've expected.<BR>...this journey won't be the easiest!<P>You know... as do so many here...<BR>...what your posts/replies are doing for so many!<P>Everyone sees your steadfastness...<BR>...I see a little more... <BR>...you have with you a presence...<BR>...you will make through it <B>all</B>!<P>I'll check on you when I come back from my trip...<BR>...I'd normally say... keep the faith...<BR>...in your case... I'll say... spread the faith! <P>Your friend in the deepest sense of the word... <P>Jim

Sheba-<P>All I know is that in all the time I have been here your posts are usually the ones that cover all the bases. Oh how I wish I had your insight and outlook on life.<P>As I read your post I almost cried. I imagined myself going through what you had to go through. I know exactly what you meant when you said you cried out. It brought me back to D-Day I remember all too well that feeling.<P>Although I am lucky to have my H here with me and wanting to be here with me I read what so many here have to say and it makes me feel bad. I wish none of us had to face this type of pain. I never had a clue that infidelity was such a "hot" item. It breaks my heart.<P>While I have never considered myself fault- free I do know that another persons feelings have always come before mine. <P>I know you Sheba-and I know that you will make a good life for yourself in whatever way it comes to you. You are smart, thoughtful, independant, caring and loving. It is your H that will lose in the end. What a shame. <P>------------------<BR>*heartache*<BR>"Loyalty Is A Two Way Street"<BR>

YES, OF COURSE I AM PROUD OF YOU!!!<P>You fly where most of us refuse to tread.<P>Your logic is sound, your heart true.<P>While you are waiting, however, keep getting on with your own life. I understand that marriage is sacred, but be open to God's purpose where ever it leads you...OK?