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I just turned 31 in May. Stbx H turned 33 in May.<P>Mitzi ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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I am 47 and fast approaching 48 in September. Husband just turned 43. <P>Yep, 40 was when he really got into OW. I agree with Wassi, midlife crisis has a deffinate thing in all of this mess.<P>We have been married 16.5 years and together 18, July 9, 2000. My favorite anniversary, when we got together. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif) <P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! With God on our side we can't lose! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B><p>[This message has been edited by A blessed Samantha (edited June 27, 2000).]
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I am 28 and my roomate(wife) is about to turn 32.
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Oh, dangit, I was doing so well... not thinking of the big 3-0 fast approaching. XH is 37. Former OW (now W *snicker*) is 24. Kinda funny how living with a horrible person can age you. I look new W's age, and she looks his... she stopped smiling a while back. Looks like she got the booby-prize The X's kids from his affair are now 2 and 3 years old.<BR> Wonderchild is 6 1/2, going on 16 *already*!!<BR> Mynabird<BR> ----Time Marches On... Then You Realize It's Marching Right Across Your Face.------
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I'm 23 - H is 29.<BR>Married 3 years on July 11. All this happened in our 2nd year!! Why!!??<P>------------------<BR>"I believe... this is heaven to no one else but me - and I'll defend it long as I can be left here to linger in silence if I choose to would you try to understand?" - Sarah McLachlan
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I'll have to look again but it seems I may be at least one of th oldest if not the oldest so far. I have aged 10 years in the last 6 months but, I'm 49, W is 48, 25 years of marriage. One D 17 now pregnant living with me and dumped father/boyfriend.<P>Love and Prayers for All!!!<P>J W<P><BR>I looked again so far I am the oldest...thanks for pointing that out NoMas lol.<p>[This message has been edited by J Willy (edited June 27, 2000).]
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I'm 35, my H is 34 - working toward 10 yrs in Nov.
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Hi,<P>I'm 35.<BR>Stbx is 34 - will be 35 in Nov. (OW is 35) He is having a MLC even though he's kinda young for it.<P>We've been married 15 years. Together 17 years. Will probably be divorced within the next 6 weeks. Paperwork is through, just waiting for H to sign and then file.  We used to be so happy. You just never know.<P>3 kids - boy 14, girl 11, & boy 9.<P><P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com
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My H and I are both 36. I think the OW is 34 not sure but definately acts 16.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by inamess:<BR><B>DID YOU SEE THE 40's?<BR>Why is this happening in the 20's?</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I thinks it's because we got married too young!<P>Yeah, those 40's are scary! I hope both my H and I can make it through that time. Maybe we already went through our "mid-life crisis" now!! <P><p>[This message has been edited by momma (edited June 27, 2000).]
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I'm 30, 31 in Sept. and H is 34, soon to be 35 in July. We'll be married 6 years in Sept. Been together 8 years total.<P>That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!
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I bet you guess this one . . .<P>I'm 35<BR>H is 37<BR>Married for 14 years
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I'm 37, husband will be 36 in August.
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No, JWilly, you now have company - you are not the oldest!<BR>I just turned 48(although I don't feel it or feel I look it-sorry, that was not meant the way it sounded - have been working out a lot lately - helps with the stress); H will soon turn 49. And, yes, mid-life crisis is fact, not fiction!!!<BR>Married almost 24 years...<BR>
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40's are scary aren't they? H is 43 and I am 40. Gives you young folks something to look forward to. Perhaps you can get it out of your system now so you won't have to suffer later?
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Ah what the heck...<P>I'm 41, stbx will be 41 in August... and yes, the 40's are hell...
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I'm 43, H is 44<P>------------------<BR>RobinAnn<P>*********<P>Miracles occur naturally as expressions of love. The real miracle is the love that inspires them. In this sense everything that comes from love is a miracle.<P>Marianne Williamson
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Hmmmmm.......<P>Our ages?<P>Dang I was hoping to find a couple or even just one person who posts here that is older than I am!!!!!!!<P>LOL!<P>I will be the BIG FIVE 0 (50) in Oct. Hubby will reach the same milestone in Dec.<P>Making us both currently 49, and holding. <P>The OW just turned 49 this past Sun. Yeah, she's younger, although not by much.<P>I'm curious, are many of the OP quite a bit younger than the betrayed? I seem to remember reading somewhere that the OP tends to be younger.<P>Maybe my situation is just that much odder than the average.<P>FC
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Fingers...since you asked...<P>I am 40 and the "OW" <I hate that term...she is a human being...a wonderful woman...who shares a common weakness as me> Anyway, she is 31.<P>Age was never an issue here with me. Wasn't out looking for a "younger babe". She just happens to be a few years younger.<P>I think a common trait in men going through the Midlife thing is trying to hold on to their youth....or recapture it. This was never the case for me.<BR>
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Hey Fingers Crossed,<P>The OW in my situation is 43, my H & I are 45. So I don't consider her THAT much younger.<P>The classic MLC I've heard about is where the 40 yo WS trades their S in for two 20 year olds. I think that was supposed to be funny. Sorry.<P>Jo
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