Is everyone else on this Rollercoaster experiencing Nightmares?<P>Last night I had a doozey.<P>I finally talked to my H and since I waited too long to contact him he said he decided to marry OW. He was walking on all fours like a dog and had a collar w/a long leash, as he was talking to me OW pulled his leash in to her. He said "Gotta go, have chores to do and then I need to service OW". I then hit him over the head with his fav guitar. He just laughed and said thank you. OW was laughing the whole time, a really ugly laugh like Corilla de'vill.<P>I woke up hurt and crying. Wanted to call H immediately but held off. <P>Maybe I should change my username to "El Cabong"!<P>Jo<P>------------------<BR>Josie_Res@Hotmail.com<P>"Remain flexible like a reed, as opposed to an oak which can snap in the wind"

Hi Jo,<BR>That one's a doozy! I bookmarked a link for a site about dreams and dream interpretations. As I'm madly getting ready for hosting a garden group at my place soon, I haven't had time to get past the first page. You might want to check it out and give us a report. Tootrusting has been having strange dreams too. Hope she sees this when she gets back from vacation. <BR> <A HREF="http://www.dream.net.au/" TARGET=_blank>http://www.dream.net.au/</A> <P>

I'm not alone! I was amazed at how well I was able to keep things together for so long. Never had a nightmare about it until a couple of months after I found out. Typical of seeing your H with OW and them being smug about it. I had a couple of those and then as we started to work on thigs, they stopped.<P>When you are consumed with thoughts of something, eventually it enters your dreams. Don't let that get you down.

Past two nights PA OW has popped up in my dreams.<P>First I was visiting her in High School and she hid a gun in her locker for me (what does that mean???). Then I told her we would never be friends again and she smiled and said in a little girl voice, "Yes, we will." Then I asked why she ever wanted to sleep with H any way and proceeded to list all his bad qualities. And she smiled again and said, "We never remind him of those. We only tell him..." and proceeded to list off all his good qualities until I woke up.<P>Last night's wasn't so clear. All I remember is that she was dressed in a red, white, and blue clogging costume and that she kept interrupting "my boyfriend" (a guy at my work I tried to set her up with before I found out about PA--not my boyfriend!!!) while he was trying to do his American Indian dance routine with his dance troupe (a bunch of the guys at work--very amusing dream if I stick to that image!). She kept butting in with that stupid kewpie doll pose that annoyed me when I just suspected while I was trying to straighten out the troupe's cosumes.<P>Very weird and very disturbing. I feel like I'm going off the deep end at times.<P>I guess I'll just ride this hill and wait for the next. Hopefully it won't be as big a one or one of those loop things.<P>Have I ever mentioned that I HATE rollercoasters? <P>Good luck to you, Jo! --HBC

OMG HBC! You WIN!<P>What did you eat before you went to bed???<P>I want to know what that gun in the locker business is all about.<P>I'm on my way out the door for a couple hours but when I return, gonna look-up our dreams at the referenced Website.<P>Jo <p>[This message has been edited by Resilient (edited July 09, 2000).]

Daisy,<BR> The nightmares aren't as frequent now.But they usually involve my stbx being with a man who's face I can't make out(never seen BoyToy,don't care to).<BR> At any rate,there's usually a confrontation,and I dream I'm beating the [censored] out of him.Then I wake up in a cold sweat.<BR>Can you sense some hostility here? <BR> <BR> I just hope I don't really run into them together.He would hate to see my dream come true....<BR>BTW,that's an interesting dream you have.The OW controlling your H like a dog.Maybe it's true. How about sending her a leash. <P> When's the big lasagna party?Lora and I are ready! <P> ~~Murph

Murph Murph Murph ...<P>I'll be making lasagna within the week. Do you want spinache, meat (italian sauage, lean ground beef) or all cheese?<P>Man, I sure hope your W & OB (other boy) don't run into you too! Sounds like he'd be gettin a can of Whoop [censored] from you.<P>Jo<P>p.s. How's the mega thread doing, you guys headed to 2K?

Hey Murph and Lora,<P>I've decided I'm gonna hold off on the lasagna until a couple things get done around here by Lora. Here's the list:<P>Install fireplace Insert<BR>Mow the Lawn<BR>Paint the House (inside & out)<BR>Chop up Murph's wood and haul it over and stack it.<P>So as soon as Lora gets those things done, I'm in the kitchen cooking.<P>BTW .. think we should change the name of our Mega Thread to the Giga Thread.<P>Jo

I don't dream about my H and OW, usually dream about these 3:<BR>1. Find money on the street<BR>2. Meet famous people<BR>3. Falling from high place<P>After D-day one dream I had is this:<P>I was at a classroom and I was sitting on the left, and my H and OW were sitting on the right. At the class people had to show their projects and it was OW's turn. She looks like Scully from X-File so she made a parody film. While the film was shown I was checking how my H was and he looked amazed. After the film was finished she went back to her seat, and then I saw my H mouth moving "it was great", and he tried to kiss her. Then I stood up and walked to them and I lifted a chair at OW. Then my H tried to protect her so I dropped the chair and told him I wasn't gonna do it, just wanted to scare her. Anyway they didn't say anything and left the room. I felt so sh!tty and went to my seat. Then a boy came in the room and came to me. He said to me to follow him, so I thought I was going to principle's office and I would get a detention...When we were outside of the classroom he pointed out at a woman and said, "go see her, and tell her I sent you". I went to her and she turned out to be a therapist.<P>I usually don't wake up after bad dreams but this one I woke up and felt so sad. My therapist said it was interesting my H wasn't in the middle but he was on the right side with OW, and I was on the left alone and watching them.. When she said that I felt so sad and thought, yeah it's true...<P>That's the only one I dreamt about..

Jo/Daisy,<BR> <BR>That's right,if I ever get my hands on BoyToy,I'll Rocky Balboa his a$$,<BR> I'll drop him like a bad habit,<BR> I'll hit him so hard,his kids will be born dizzy,<BR> I'll knock him into next week,<BR> I'll be all over him like fleas on a dog,<BR> I'll hit him four times before his glasses hit the ground,<BR> I'll,....I'll,.........Sorry,got carried away there! <P> Lora,<BR> You better get to work!<BR> Whew!I got so worked up,I'm ready for some lasagna. <P> ~~Murph/Rocky<BR> <BR>

So does this mean you kinda dislike the guy?<P>Man Murph ... You make me laugh so hard.<P>AND ... if Lora would get her dang chores done, I'd be dishin out Daisy's Lasagna to ALL! <P>Jo

Hi Resilient,<P>The only dream I can remember distinctly, shortly after D-day is that I was digging a grave.<P>Not sure whose- mine, H's, OW's, or the marriage????<P>I awoke feeling very disturbed.

Paint the house??? That must be SOME lasagna!!<P>Right now I haven't had nightmares for a few months, maybe due to denial...not wanting to think I should just give up?<BR>Only one that I can remember and that just now I realize what it was triggered by.<P>Maybe just a sliver of lasagna, please. Don't want to lose my new girlish figure. (Sorry)<BR>rrunr<BR>

Jo,<P>I'm thinking that I didn't have anything spicy ENOUGH for dinner before those dreams...and you have me craving lasagna now!<P>I am pleased to report that OW did not invade my dreams last night...after I had a burrito for dinner!<P>Take care! --HBC

Very good HBC! I too had no bad deams last night, what a relief.<P>Love Burritos, they're my comfort food.<P>Haven't had a chance to breeze by that Dream Website yet, but will try it tonite.<P>I guess I'm gonna have to whip up a BIG batch of Daisy Jo's Special Lasagna soon.<P><BR>Best to you HBC...<BR>Jo