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I was wondering if there is anyone here who can help me to see what I "should be" looking for if my wife is having an affair.<P>I have a strong suspision that there is something terribly wrong but I am unsure and do not wantt o accuse her of anything like that.<P>I have been to all the websites already with the different pages telling what I should look for but alot of the things they describe are not average solutions for the average person.<P>I was wondering if anyone would want to share with me how they found out, What led you to believe that there "might" be something wrong? Did you suspect it for long?<P>Any information would be a help.<P>Thanks
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harshaw,<P>It might be helpful if you shared what indicator have raised your suspicions. That might get more meaningful responses. Another approach would be to take some steps to improve you marriage regardless. I notice that you are new here. Why not prinnt off the emotional needs questionaire after reading all you can on this web site about creating a healthy marriage. Introduce you W to the web site and the concepts. Explain that you want your marrieg to be better then it has ever been before. Don't let on that you have any suspiscions just honestly take step to try to learn and meet your W emotional needs better.<P>Mud
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Harshaw:<P>Here is a link to a fairly recent thread on this very subject: <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000985.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000985.html</A> <P>I know it is scary to think that this might be going on. I "knew" long before I found out for sure.<P>Remember, your wife will probably find very creative explanations for anything that you find. She is not a bad person, but if she is having an affair she will probably be lost in her world and will not want to admit it. <P>I suggest that you also read everything you can about good ways to confront your W if you think she is having an affair BEFORE you do so. Start here for information: <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5525_qa.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5525_qa.html</A> .<P>Good luck! Please let us know how you are. --HBC
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