My H and I can't seem to get along for more than maybe an hour a day. We fight all the time about the same things. Mainly that he ignores me and his son. He comes home from work and can't even say hi. He justs starts doing whatever he wants to do. He can't give me a kiss and when I ask him about his day he just says "fine" and walks away. It kills me that he can't talk to but he can talk for hours on the phone to his friends or on the computer but he can't say 2 words to me. He never does anything with our son, not even change him. I do it all and then he gets upset because when the baby falls down or doesnt feel good, he comes running to me. I have talked until I am blue in the face about how he makes me feel when he does these things, but he never gets it. He says he is sorry, but than an hour later he is doing it again. I dont feel that he loves me anymore and I cant handle that feeling anymore, it hurts too much. I love him with all my heart and soul but I can't line with a man who can't even say 2 words to me. Should I just give up and call it quits? Or should I stay for my child. I am so confused. Help...

Hi Sage. Has anyone welcomed you to the forum yet? I hope so. Somewhere there's a post with handy links for things you need to read. NSR, you back from vacation yet? <P>Anyway, you've come to the right place to find help. You'll find encouraging words to give you strength to save your marriage. Sorry I'm posting something so short, but I'm staying up too late... again! Meanwhile, read about lovebusters, love banks, and love deposits. That'll give you a good start on what you need to know.

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