I have already posted 2 messages, sorry to keep bothering everybody.<P>My husband left our house a week ago. A month ago today we were walking our lot where our new home was going to be built and walking through a house like the one we were going to build talking about where we would put the furniture. WHAT HAPPENED?<P>Without any notice at all, he returns home from the mountains over a weekend a changed person. After that point, he could no longer tell me that he loves me. He told me that he had been feeling this way for awhile, but why didn't I notice it. He was still treating me so well. He told me that I didn't notice it because he was trying. Can that be true?<P>How does someone who is so madly in love with you 8 months ago when we got married, now just turning off the button.<P>He isn't even willing to try. After I was informed there were problems, he doesn't even want to try. I begged him to try and told him that I was fighting for our marriage. And, he leaves my house saying he isn't going to drag this out.<P>Maybe it is because someone else got his attention. But how can that happen. I am not even interested in looking at other men. Well, I shouldn't say maybe because I know there was a girl he was talking to. If you have read my previous stories you know that I found her home and work numbers and she was paging him at 8 am in my house. My husband changed his pager number and didn't even tell me.<P>I am so desparately looking for answers. Help me to understand that one day someone can love you and the next day it is gone forever. He isn't even looking back. He is moving full speed ahead. I don't even feel that there is hope for us. Is there?
