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Could you please read my post coming up on 1 year and give me some advice? I am ready to stop this torture of having H in the house. I would prefer long distance plan A, but how can I make him leave... he acts trapped and tortured here, not talking to me. Maybe he is waiting for me to say I am working full time and he can go. <P>Do you think I should go straight to plan B? <BR>Any other advice? I am starting to feel I don't desearve this and I am wondering if he is capable of changing and ever talking about out problems and finding our way to recovery.<BR>Lora
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Back to the TOP for Lora!<P>K ... you out there yet?<P>Hey Lora, it's me. You okay?<P>I posted on your other thread, Hon. You sound at the end of your rope and I can almost sense the frustration & desperation building in your post. I don't know how you've stayed so patient thru this for an entire year. Your H is Mr. Stonewall Jackson to the hilt. Never seen someone so closed mouth for so very long.<P>I think you should give him that drug they have that's a truth serum. Just one time so you at least get to know how he feels and what he wants. You know I'm joking but wouldn't that be cool. You could finally ask him all the questions you've had built up over this last year.<P>I'll call you this eve.<P>Be well,<BR>Jo
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Resilient,<P>I posted to Lora on the original thread... Thanks for bringing it up for me, tho... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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