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Hello everyone,<P>Just wanted you to know that I was served today,things are moving very quickly.I can not post my deepest thoughts here because my privacy has been invaded.Love you all,you are in my prayers.alone1
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Alone1,<P>I am so sorry! My heart is beating so hard for you. I know that you are feeling sad, confused and certain that life is not going to be complete without your spouse.<P>Why is your privacy being invaded? I haven't been around a whole bunch so I guess I am way behind.<P>What are you feeling? Please update.<P>Nancy
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nancy,<BR>Got to go to work.can I email you and explain later when I have time?alone1
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You most certainly have my prayers... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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Alone1<P>Anytime you want to e-mail me....feel free to.<P>Kenizanasshl@aol.com<P>I might not have answers but will be here for you.<P>Nancy
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Mental and NSR,<BR>I just sent you both a email.alone1
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alone1 soon2bx who will it be next week???<P>So, how does it feel to know that I have your paasword now like you had mine??<P>Bet your as mad as I was.
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Dont let him get to you Beth. Obviosly he is not over you. He feels the need to know your every thought and action. I think he is more focused on you than he is on the OW. no way will he be able to have a sucessfull relationship with someone else when he is still this caught up in his feelings for you. The opposite of love is not hate. <P>Dave, why do you feel the need to come to a place where your wife is trying to get a little support and post tring to intimidate her? Why does it bother you so much what she is saying here? If you are over her why do you need this connection? I hope you are reading some of the other posts here too and maybe can understand your actions a little better.<BR>Lora
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Oh ouch, this is nasty. I think you both need to think about privacy. Ok Dave you scored a password, what did you find? As I remember her posts were mostly pain that she didn't dump on you, maybe she should have. Can you think of of marriage, a life, without passwords? An existance that doesn't require secrecy?<P>I wish the best for both of you, but if you feel your thougthts must be protected from<BR>from the person who should be closest to you, there is a rather barren road ahead.<P>Take care, both of you. And try to be kind to each other, what will it gain you to be mean and spiteful?<P>Lord this was a hard one to respond to. If I were more of a praying woman I would have echoed NSR, heck I'll give it a try tonight and pray.
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Dear Dave,<P> I dont think you realize what incredible emotional pain I have been through.I would not wish what I have gone thru on anyone.I loved you,I trusted you completely,I was loyal,and committed to you and our marriage.<BR> I have chosen not to speak directly to you ,but to use a third person to communicate to you as a way of protecting myself from anymore hurt .<BR> You have chosen your new life,now let me find some peace.bethn
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